Is getting heartbroken considered bluepill?

[deleted] · 2016-12-18T13:01:35+00:00

It's blue-pill to drag yourself through the mud because you're heartbroken. "She's the only one!" "I can't live without her!".

Loss in life is inevitable, sometimes it's romantic, sometimes someone dies and we have to go through it and do our best to endure it and go through the grief stage.

So don't punish yourself for feeling heartbroken, just go through it, remember that all the feelings you'll be experiencing are normal and eventually you'll start to feel better.

Yashugan00 · 2016-12-18T14:03:38+00:00

It's how you get over it that counts. No shame in having feelings, how you wallow in them in self pity is what makes a beta.

Triadis3 · 2016-12-18T13:27:21+00:00

You can have your feelings, it's what makes us human.

But realize a grown man can control and rationalize those feelings.

woofThrowawaywoof · 2016-12-18T12:07:47+00:00

Don't feel down about it, its how we all get here

EdvardMunch · 2016-12-18T17:11:42+00:00

I'll say it once again, the problem with TRP quite often is this overly simplistic way of thinking.

It's like insecurity about masculinity. Do wherever the hell you want, but know where it's coming from. Don't use TRP masks and bandaids.

There are different types of rejections and negative feels to be had when dealing with women. Hurt over rejection in cases where you both seemed emotionally invested is far different than building a girl up in your head as though she's the only answer to life, that is blue pill. That is beta provider.

A man who has been with a lot of women knows many of them would make good partners, exciting partners, good sex partners, etc. and knows not one of them is the meaning to his life. But some are truly great for us; you just remember there are still so many out there.

Location is also important. Living in a college town is quite different than a small country town where you might not even have a potential partner period, and if you happen to the oneitis will be very strong.

ChadIsDead · 2016-12-19T04:02:56+00:00

Blue pill is about a set of behaviors, not individual circumstances, and it's highly contextual. These behaviors are generally associated with poorer quality sexual and romantic relationships.

Circumstances that happen to you is not what defines blue pill. It's how you behave in response to them.

Title	Is getting heartbroken considered bluepill?
Author	ghinthsh
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	December 18, 2016 11:24 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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