Is monogamy without LTR possible?

Ricklogical · 2018-04-05T16:37:54+00:00

If you don't have time you don't have time. When it becomes important to game again, go out and game again.

I myself am with a woman, starting my LTR with her for 8 months. I don't expect it to last, 3 years from now it could be over. I am social with women whenever possible but I am also very busy with the life I am building.

If she was to start acting out, I would react. I know how to react, but till then I'm good with her.

I suggest the same for you. Do what's right, adapt when you need to.

RandyBumgardner85 · 2018-04-05T17:01:11+00:00

Do what you want bro. Just don't tell her you love her, don't push for commitment, don't be the needy one and don't let her know she's your only source of front bottom.

mrpthrowa · 2018-04-05T13:14:45+00:00

The reason you made this post is not because you're worried about having only one plate, it's because this girl has given you such a hormone hit you're catching feefees and all you can do is think about her and fantasize about how she's good enough for you and may be you'll LTR her one day, which is why you're hamstering like crazy about plates and how they dropped and how you don't want a relationship and what not.

If she's a potential LTR that's fine, she may be good enough, but don't kid yourself, you're already in oneties territory and that's probably why you're gonna fuck it up and lose her. You're hamstring "monogomy" because you're hoping that she'll reciprocate and be monogamous to you (a cover contract), although you didn't say this, the moment you'll find out she fucks other guys you'll break frame.

Stop your hamstering around your time and stop worrying about other pussy, it will come naturally if you're good enough.

TheRedPillMonkey · 2018-04-05T13:12:36+00:00

I don't think it's monogamy also much as 1 plate. You aren't committing to her.

Oneitis is the main thing. It'll be pretty easy to just assume you have an easy lay with her and you'll lose your abundance mentality. Meanwhile, she's riding the cc hard. One day you'll find your last plate broken, and suddenly you'll catch oneitis because while your abundance mentality is intact, the actual abundance is gone.

Just think of it like this: if you don't have time to find new plates now, what's going to happen when this plate breaks?

htbf · 2018-04-05T14:14:11+00:00

Dude has a business and is launching 2 more within the next month and we're here talking about "a girl he's totally not falling love with".

I'm so much more interested in how the fuck can you handle properly 3 businesses and launching them one after the other.

Title	Is monogamy without LTR possible?
Author	ShrugAddict
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	April 5, 2018 12:56 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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