Is overcoming shyness and developing charm just a lost cause for some people?

Kose2kose · 2015-11-08T13:54:43+00:00

Why r ppl suggesting for this guy to do drugs?? Smh c'mon ppl. Horrible advice. You dont know how phenibut or mdma will effect him. hes already obviously nervous and anxious. Stimulants might make him Feel even worse. That's so dangerous to tell him to take drugs to overcome his shyness. You don't know if he has potential for addiction. I'm a former heroin addict and opiates for me removed that shyness and anxiety. So it was a perfect tool for me to use to talk to girls and men alike. It made me fearless. Problem is, I needed it always because I gained a psychological and eventually physical dependence to it. Once I got used to having it as a crutch, it makes it so you stop working on your problems. It's too risky of a thing and OP should look to improve himself in a natural healthy manner without the use of drugs. It will be infinitely more rewarding and less stupid or dangerous

There's always gonna be someone more charismatic and charming than you. So u can always improve or sharpen you charm skills thru practice and time . I kno u feel like a lost cause but I bet u that ur more charming than u think already

JeffsRP · 2015-11-08T11:28:12+00:00

Unequivocally no.

Archwinger · 2015-11-08T15:05:16+00:00

Wtf kind of question is this? "Sucking is just who I am! Convince me otherwise!"

No. Fuck you.

frequentlywrong · 2015-11-08T12:56:16+00:00

Stop looking for excuses.

trpftw · 2015-11-08T21:33:35+00:00

If you can't get over it. Try to stop caring first of all. Secondly, you can hire a ton of prostitutes (first do some research online) and even have nice chats with them. It's like having training wheels. They'll be nice to you and you'll have sex with them, and you'll get over your anxiety.

In addition, you can seek a psychiatrist. It doesn't mean you have a problem. But a psychiatrist can give you the right medication to get over your anxiety. There's nothing wrong with getting ASSISTANCE from a psychiatrist if that is becoming a problem for your social life.

WakandaDrama · 2015-11-09T02:16:59+00:00

Lol gonna suggest drugs too. Take some shrooms on the first warm day of spring. Plan to relaxing day with no obligations. Best case scenario, you'll be able to confront your mental hang ups, maybe even get to the root of why you're so anxious. Worse case, you have a bad trip, and you have to face that shit anyway.

Anxiety and shyness, for me, was being judged or the danger of the unknown. After getting guns in your face multiple times and watching good friends die young, you start smashing that shy shit BECAUSE AS FAR AS WE KNOW, WE ONLY GET ONE LIFE. STOP WASTING IT TRAPPED IN YOUR HEAD.

senatorbot · 2015-11-08T12:31:16+00:00

Check out Phenibut and try it for a day or so and recall how you acted during taking it. Then learn to change yourself to be like that without relying on an outside supplement.

redpillcynic · 2015-11-08T12:16:34+00:00

Fastest way - try MDMA

Title	Is overcoming shyness and developing charm just a lost cause for some people?
Author	throwawaycomedian95
Upvotes	5
Comments	26
Date	November 8, 2015 10:54 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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