• known this girl for about 9 months now, she's part of our college social circle, she and i mostly see each other when we go drinking as a group. good chemistry, not friend zone-like though imo

  • we were at a friends place, ca. 8 person total, genders 50/50. all friends. start a drinking game, one after another joins in. when she joins she climbs over the others to come to me (was sitting the furthest away) and asks me if she could sit on my lap. sure thing.

  • throughout the evening we got physically closer; at first she just sat on my right leg, no other touching. i started touching her on her back and hip etc. rather quickly though, she soon sat crossed over both my legs.

  • drank from my beer, puffed from my cigarette (she never ever smokes), defends/helps my in the drinking game and picks me whenever it's her turn to choose somone who has to drink or must do a stupid game with her. other "nonsexual" kino aswell (tickling etc)

  • throughout the evening the group split up into smaller groups etc., but she always came back to me to sit on my lap. when i came back out from inside and every place was taken i told her to stand up, she asks if she can sit on my lap then and i agree.

  • i once accidentally got a spark from my cigarette on her tights which burned a small hole in them. i should mention that she was wearing a short skirt with tights while sitting on my lap... well she then tells my that she would like to take the tights off (because of the hole) but she doesn't wear anything underneath... yeah. at some point she also gave me a big kiss on the cheek while sitting on my lap for whatever reason. she knows that i have a girlfriend by the way.

  • when my girlfriend saw her for the first time at my birthday she got a bit jealous/pissed afterwards and asked me if the girl and i dated when my gf and i were split up a while back. she thought that because the girl looked at her in a very "guilty way" and looked at me in another certain way swell, i just "don't notice these things". although i barely talked to the girl at all that night. close friend of mine who told me something similar once (she likes you, she always looks at you a certain way when you don't look).

not sure if she's really into me or just liking the attention and i'm friend zoned... she's an attractive girl and definitely knows that too. she's still 19, i'm 21. i think she still has a beta boyfriend, not sure though. we never see him.