All I'd like is to be able to head out on the weekend and get laid. Perhaps not every single time I go out, but on a fairly regular basis. I'm not looking for a relationship or anything at this point.

My background is that I'm 21 and in college and I haven't done anything with a woman. At all. Not even held a woman's hand. I can hardly speak to them unless I have a simple goal in mind like asking to borrow a pencil or something.

Is it possible to turn around 180 degrees like that?