Is The Game Avoidable?

This is a huge problem because:

I've come to learn through failed and failed relationship, introspection, and self awareness, I'm naturally clingy - a huge turnoff.

I also simply do not have the time or energy for games- I'm on course to make over six figures this year. I keep physically healthy. I have hobbies. Consequently, all of the results I've accrued through hard work and perseverance have come with price of having to deal with an incredible amount of stress.

It's like I'm the punchline of one of life's jokes.

I pull; but at the same time, I push because I can't repress my instinctual clingy behavior without causing myself a huge amount of emotional stress.

Am I at a point where I need to face the facts and have to just nut the fuck up: consequently paying the price of placing more stress on myself to in return gain a hb9 who is smart and interesting?

Or, should I continue experiencing failed relationships until I find one that complements my clingy behaviors.