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How can I hold onto a frame in this lifetime if it’s always falling apart? That's just the magic of life. Like you said, everything changes. We even name up our political affiliations based on that: Conservative (oppose change) vs Liberal (accept change). Your frame is just who you are and how you behave. It changes over time, just like everything else. That's life. So how do you hold onto a frame? You don't. Well you can try and fight it. Lots of people do. They refuse to accept change, and tha…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:51 PM
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In real life, words like 'always' or 'never' are usually inapplicable. They are guidelines, nothing more. Do boys always have to ask the girls out? No. Your example is the obvious counterexample. Will you, as a boy, have to ask girls out more than they ask you out to consistently hang out with them? Yes, unless you are very attractive. Will you, as a boy, have to ask girls out to get the girls you WANT to hang out with, instead of whoever asks you out? Yes.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:44 PM
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How old are you? I'm guessing high school if your friends are calling you a fuckboy for anything social media related. If that's the case, still try not to worry about it since it's a superficial means of communication and fake showing who you are. In other words, it does not matter in the slightest. If you are an adult and are asking this, what the fuck. Edit: but sought to reverse it in college, So you are an adult. What the fuck. Nothing on social media matters.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:40 PM
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Try it and see what happens. Don't need to stop completely, but just cut it down to like 1x per week at most. But also fade sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or switching positions. is perfectly normal. The solution is to have her blow you until you get hard again.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:15 PM
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You should be asking this in /r/fitness or /r/lifting, or I have tendonosis better yet, your doctor and/or physical therapist
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:13 PM
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Don't watch porn. My boners are through the roof when I don't watch porn/jerk off for a while. Have sex with cute girls. If you're having sex with uggos, lack of arousal is self explanatory.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:10 PM
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It teaches you about history. Being educated has always been a great thing.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:49 PM
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Yea signs of disinterest, or her being shy around her friend. Hard to tell. Either way, this is why it's recommended to always do a 1 on 1 first date, ideally elsewhere at a bar or at a park or wherever, to prevent this kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:07 PM
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Sounds like you didn't actually make any moves on her. You just sat across from her and talked. What did you expect? Basically all she did was answer my questions, laugh a little and do 80% of the talking Sounds like a great start to me. anything besides sitting across from me and talking Don't wait for girls to take action. Game is you taking the action. Get up and sit next to her. Her roommate wouldn't leave the living room So tell her "let's go for a walk". None of this is her fault. Her bein…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:12 PM
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A healthy child requires two parents. Good luck finding a woman worth raising a child with that will have kids with you without marrying.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 10:51 PM
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but you come to a situation where you have not enough information to act as leader correctly, should you let a person of the group be the acting leader for as long as he is more knowledgeable? Your job as a leader is to determine who in the group has the right knowledge, probe them for it, and apply as needed. If that means that person leads the next portion, that's fine. Everyone knows who the actual leader is. Also in the case where no one has enough information and can cooperate, should you t…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:40 PM
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There's no reason to burn bridges, especially if you have a good relationship with one of the managers. Do the 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:35 PM
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I've had something similar occcur to me. I nailed it down to the desperation. Girls can smell it on you. They can see it in your eyes. When you 'need' pussy, you cannot lie about it. Not to yourself, nor to girls. It's a mindset. The change that made it go away for me is I stopped giving a fuck about my results with women. If I meet a girl, and she rejects me, who cares. If I meet a girl, and it goes well, yay. I stopped expecting things of women. My goal was just to have fun. It worked pretty w…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:27 PM
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Same reasons girls stay with guys who beat them.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:23 PM
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Most of my attempts to invite myself over for a date to hers for a 2nd/3rd date have failed. Had to readjust Screen hard for girls with their own place Don't expect anything on 1st date, especially if you have to drive long distances. Segway from date to her house (without any previous mentioning of it). You can do this any date if your game is good and she is attracted to you. Meet up for drinks (preferable closer to her place) and then casually drop this sick movie you've been wanting to see o…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:02 AM
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The liberal approach to casual sex is not fully embraced by everyone in our society.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:41 PM
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Don't overdo it. Moderation is key, or you will get burned out. Spend the time you can being social and having fun, but be sure to give yourself time to recharge when you need to. Don't be afraid to say 'no' to social events when you need to just read a book. But then, don't hesitate to go back to being social ASAP. Don't withdraw into yourself. Moderation is key.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:38 PM
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No. The act of sex by itself is not fulfilling. What is fulfilling is the attachment you have the the person you are having sex with.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:36 PM
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"Only one way to find out"
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:35 PM
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I've never had a role model. Like you said, role models are motivation. Not discipline. Basing your desire off someone else is like avoiding the responsibility of forcing yourself to do it. Good on you for not blaming anyone, but instead, take responsibility and make it happen. You're still making excuses. You don't need a role model. Or, if you do, then step up and find one. What drives you? Good question. For one, I love unprotected sex. So I must have an LTR to do this safely. Gives me a simp…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:30 PM
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Yes. If a girl has no sense of humor and can't take a joke, I immediately lose interest. Of course, you don't just insult her (call her straight up fat), you make a joke out of it.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:20 PM
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You do you, but realize that my point still stands. You don't gain something without giving up something else. If you want a side job/hobby, you will need to give up time elsewhere. A few of my friends who are really killing it in life transitioned their gym time to 6AM before their job. This leaves them time after work to do whatever they need to do, and they can be asleep around 10-11.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:19 PM
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I finished a coding bootcamp and me as well as everyone else in my cohort found jobs at various companies throughout the town we were in. Not even college grads necessarily.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 11:17 PM
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Unfortunately the problem is 100% discipline. As stupid as it sounds, you simply must do it. I have very similar issues to the ones you describe. I've read so much material and visited with therapists about mental models, meditating, journals, etc etc blah blah the wide range of self help material. There is only one thing that solves I can't do anything Just fucking do it. That's it. It sounds dumb as fuck, but really just fucking do it. Put yourself into situations where you just have to do it.…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:12 PM
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Negging/teasing/poking fun is absolutely a form of shit testing. If the woman fails by either Getting extremely defensive or Getting offended and going on the offensive She fails the test and essentially nexts herself indirectly. Different flavor of shit test
/r/askTRP24/08/17 09:59 PM
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If you are applying to the top tier tech firms yes. If you just want a comfortable 9-5 making your 6 figures after working for ~5 years and becoming a senior dev, there are a ton of corporate programmer jobs which would drool over college grads. Hint, most jobs are the second type. Also, you don't need 4 years of undergrad + 2 years of law school + bar exam to be a engineer. Depending on the company, you need an undergrad, or just some kind of proof you know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 09:56 PM
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Yup that's life. To gain one thing, you must sacrifice another. If you pursue an athletic activity, you can reduce the number of days you go to the gym. Going 2-3 times + doing dance/yoga/whatever will keep you in great shape.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 09:54 PM
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I really enjoyed the ideas taught in the book Mindfulness in Plain English
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:13 PM
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I’d be up for another job but nothing pays decent Have studied some iOS and Android development as well as web stuff (HTML, css, php, MySQL), but don’t see myself doing this and don’t see a point in continuing. Engineering pays very well. But you don't wanna do it. Nothing that is easy pays well my friend. Unless you're born rich, you gotta grind it out. Try searching/asking a similar question in /r/financialindependence you might find something there
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:11 PM
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Go find new hobbies. Try a new sport, a new martial art, learn an instrument, start raiding in WoW. Anything really, you just sound bored.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:08 PM
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Do something that won't fuck with your daily schedule. Anything night life related will wreck your capability to do anything productive as an engineer since you will be staying up late. Any kind of athletic activity instructor is great. Dance, yoga, soulcycle etc. Girls are hot because they're in shape, and you also get to stay in shape as a benefit. Ofc, you first need proficiency in that topic which takes a while to build up.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:06 PM
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I don't know what country you are in, but in the U.S. we can use meetup.com to find free sports activities that anyone can come participate in. Maybe you can do the same.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 02:58 PM
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A good parent in general is one who ends up sacrificing their own personal interests for the greater good of their family and their children. That is the base prerequisite. After that, it really depends on the personality of you and your mother.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:19 PM
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Sleep 8 hours every day. Eat healthy (meat and veggies, no processed food). Exercise frequently (~1 hr per day). Per day is important if you plan on spending so much time with your brain. An hour of walking is exercise too. A good idea would be to spend an hour walking with a colleague discussing whatever topics you are studying at the moment, but solitary time works too. Take breaks. Sitting on your ass for 10+ hours will drain your productivity. Sex is great motivation. Invite a girl over at 1…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:13 PM
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Ok, rewording my response. Team athletic activities, or at least activities where you get to spend more time interacting with people. Running has minimal interaction - you show up, you run, you leave. Any team sport will obviously have interaction. Also activities like rock climbing, martial arts, etc have some downtime where you can be social. Gym is not a social activity.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:10 PM
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Find an activity/hobby that forces you to go somewhere and interact with people. Athletic activities are perfect for this.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:36 PM
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There is no such thing as quick or immediate in life. It's just a different mindset. Plate is - hook em in but keep them at an arm's length away. You fuck em and then they leave. LTR is - hook em in and get them as close as possible. You fuck em and that's just a small fraction of the relationship.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 02:58 PM
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Adults who fuck children/teenagers are pedophiles, plain and simple. They relish the control and ease of manipulation that an adult has over a young person.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:56 PM
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AWALT is AWALT, but also insecurity is insecurity. wants the responsability shifted towards me Coping with insecurity reinterpreting simple statements like i'm trying to blame her, Coping with insecurity Now, are most women insecure? Yes. Many men are too, they're just better at hiding it. But, 2 LTRs is not a large sample size. There are women out there who are less insecure. Plus some handle insecurity in different ways. One way is to do as you describe, deflect all blame. People cope with the…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:53 PM
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Unless you are really close with him, nothing you can say to him will make the situation better. Best thing you can do for your own sanity is to train yourself to not react emotionally to him. That way Nothing he does will bother you You train your own mind to control your reactions
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:44 PM
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Girlfriends are expensive if you like to do expensive things and want to take them along with you. In other words, girlfriends are just as expensive as your own life. You like nature, hiking, and cooking your own food? Cheap ass girlfriend. You like fancy dinners, fast cars, brand name clothing? Expensive ass girlfriend. Unless of course, you let her run your life, in which case she will determine how expensive she is.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:42 PM
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You want an LTR, but clearly you are treating her as a plate. She is reacting accordingly.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:35 PM
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Yes and all men die. Doesn't mean you treat your life as if you've already died.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:49 PM
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That's a great idea. Team activities are great for making friends
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:49 PM
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AWALT is AWALT but you don't let 1 rotten egg stop you from liking eggs.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:48 PM
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Spinning plates and LTRs are two different mindsets. With plates, you assume that the girl can leave at any given moment. And you are OK with it. You may have dealt with it poorly, but a plate is just a plate, and eventually it will come to an end. That is the nature of spinning plates. If you are not OK with it, shift towards LTR mode. But then, starting off an LTR with a girl having stress, anxiety, and insecurity about the relationship will just make you miserable. And you are right, commitme…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 04:00 PM
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Just remember, these books are not holy bibles. They are not meant to be followed down to the T. In the end, all of us are different and want different things from life. As such, YOU have to decide which of these things are applicable to your life and which aren't. I need approval from my boss if i want a promotion You don't actually, you just need your boss to prefer you over other potential candidates. So either Outperform others Be more 'respected' in the bosses eyes or both. Up to you if you…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:45 PM
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I recommend joining social groups (meetups, hobbies, etc). Social skills are an integral part of a successful human life, and being an internet addict you have none. Don't neglect this.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:35 PM
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Wounds take time to heal. This is natural. You cannot rush the healing process. But do remember, that the LTR is the one who wronged you, not the other women in the world.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:33 PM
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Appearances can affect first impressions, but for men, ugliness is more a state of mind than a state of appearance.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:32 PM
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without making her blow up from stress, anxiety and insecurity Depending on the girl, there may be nothing you can really do except delay the inevitable. And based on her responses, she will eventually blow up from the stress, anxiety, and insecurity. So if you want her to stick around for a bit, just answer all of her questions with aloofness, humor, lots of grinning, and indirectness. Never take those concerns seriously. Never give her a clear answer. Eventually, she will demand a serious answ…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:30 PM
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I didn't read this, and I'm going to answer no because you wrote a book about her. The entire point of TRP is to take away this stranglehold women hold over you, and this is not how you do it. So no, go approach other women and until you can treat this girl like any other girl you are trying to bang, because you will put her on a pedestal made of gold and angel dust.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:27 PM
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Act professionally and communicate with them only when necessary for work related reasons. Keep approaching. The more you do it, the less shy and intimated you will become.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 03:30 PM
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Do whatever works for you. Advice on the internet is just that, advice. Most people are too emotionally immature to not burn their bridges. If you can maintain them, why not?
/r/askTRP04/08/17 03:32 AM
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Nothing broke me. I just wasn't getting the results with women I wanted and game forums and later trp was just a natural consequence of my desire to learn about women.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 07:14 PM
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The whole Game section of that forum is a goldmine when it comes to seducing women. Better than what you can find on reddit TRP regarding game.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:14 PM
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Also, read https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/beautiful-minds/the-science-of-passionate-sex/
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:12 PM
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If you're looking for instagram game tips, this is the best you'll find https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-62633.html Read the original linked from there as well
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:07 PM
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I strongly express my opinion but in a friendly way. I stand by my opinion and don't budge. vs Afterwards she tells me: you're being fierce. There's a disconnect in how you described it and her reaction. Still a shit test, but you know yourself and her better than we do.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:05 PM
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I disagree, just man up and dump her. Don't be a woman, be a man. Don't be passive-agressive, just dump her and be done with it.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:02 PM
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This is what women do. Over time, they fight you for control. Right now, you're in control. This is a subtle shit test. Overconfidence can lead to arrogance, which you don't want. It doesn't sound like you're at that point from your description, but then again, we are terrible judges of ourselves. We on the internet don't have enough information to answer this.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:00 PM
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It's not worth stressing. I'd take good friends over random pussy any day.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:56 PM
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this board is a lot to blame for. Take responsibility for your own actions :) (but yes) Right now it seems the only thing that I live for is pussy. This is the underlying problem. You have nothing to strive for but pussy. Back to my weed comparison, this would be like saying the only thing I live for is getting high (I know a few guys who are like this, they are not my friends anymore). Even if you run triathlons/have a great career, if your #1 priority is pussy, well you see where you end up. S…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:50 PM
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I really don't care. You clearly do, otherwise you wouldn't post this. I'm very highly self-aware of people, and what they say or means. This clearly says you care, since most people are the opposite of what I just quoted. Not caring about anything (or in your case pretending not to care) is not a healthy way of living. It's some kind of defense mechanism preventing you from being vulnerable and from potentially getting emotionally hurt. Is it good to not care about what most people think of you…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:28 PM
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Maybe that's a bit of a blue pill idea It's just life. There's not A girl for you, there's tens of thousands of girls like that out there for you. You just have to find them, identify them, and be wanting that outcome at that point in time. I prefer LTR sex. It's so much better than any casual sex I've had. I prefer building an emotional connection over time and seeing something develop out of it than giving myself to one person I will not see again. I see it as wasted effort. Also I hate condom…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:22 PM
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Once you're older and SMV doesn't matter anymore, all that matters is good people in your life. Never push good people away, but just know they're not the guys you take as wingmen when you wanna get laid. Keep expanding your social circle, but keep your good friends close.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:19 PM
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It's a good mindset to gain confidence but once you have some, it can easily lead to arrogance which is no good. I prefer the mindset that nobody owes you anything and to expect nothing from anyone. Then, I can simply work my magic and either make things happen, or move on to the next one. Then, if things happen, I am pleasantly surprised and can truly enjoy the moment. But I have confidence in myself and my abilities.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:15 PM
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How do I deal with a girl who constantly texts and snaps You stop responding I don't want to piss her off out of fear of the rape whistle. Baseless paranoia is crippling you
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:13 PM
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Best comparison I can make it is to a drug. I used to be as addicted as one can be to weed. I was always chasing the highs I would get when I first started smoking, but obviously due to increased tolerance and constant exposure, the highs started becoming less and less enjoyable. My expectations for highs went up while in reality the effect went down. You're experiencing something similar with women. You've fucked so many that it's just another bang to you. How to get rid of it? Change your habi…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 02:10 PM
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Just wanna be able to get lays Then gotta learn to be able to change your mindset and your behavior based on the circumstances.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 02:11 PM
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I think it's a trait of creative people (artists, musicians) etc to be night owls. It's the bohemian lifestyles. For you though, if it ain't broke don't fix it. If it's broke, then fix it.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:33 PM
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People being friendly is not an IOI. Expand your social skills.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:31 PM
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What I've done in the past is ignored it and literally just showed it to my LTR in a joking way like "lol wtf who is this dumb bitch sending me this crap".
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:30 PM
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I struggle with the 'game' aspect Don't worry, a lot of people do. Unfortunately history, serious and thought provoking conversations do not moisten a woman's panties. Quite the opposite. That being said, would I ever LTR a girl I can't have serious thought provoking conversations with? No. But I don't bring them up on the first date. Keep it fun and playful.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:26 PM
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So what you are saying is that clothes will get my foot in the door whilst game will carry the rest of me through that door? If you knock politely at the door and choose not to just open it and walk in, clothes will keep her from just pretending she's not home when she looks through the eyehole. Getting her to open the door and everything else is game. I think wearing clothes that match your personality and who you are is more important than 'looking good' because it allows your game to show mor…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:19 PM
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Is it healthy to have this kind of mindset? To love your parents and your parents love you regardless of religion, politics, money, etc? Very healthy, unfortunately doesn't happen in reality at times. Is striving for financial independence/overall independence going to be what finally frees my mind? Currently, when you are broke, yes. When you are wealthy, no. No matter where you are in life, you will have backbreaking problems that cause you to lose sleep. That said, being free from the shackle…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:12 PM
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I don't think a century is enough time for a society to get cucked Absolutely is. The Germans had the strongest military the world has ever seen in WW1, 100 years ago. WW2 was a close second 30 years after. They lost both wars and were completely neutered by the Allied powers after WW2 to prevent the Germans from doing something similar. Same with Japan after WW2. WW2 Japan was about soldiers willing to kamikaze for the honor of Japan. Now, they jerk off to tentacle porn. In general though, WW1 …
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:07 PM
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some chick got pissed off at me on OKC because I told her she was boring Petty remarks will get you nowhere. No point in telling her this. I did some approaches wearing sperry top siders combined with the shorts and a well fitting Tshirt and got some numbers - but like usual they went no where. Clothes/style are mostly a first impression thing. You got their number, so your clothes did their job. Everything else is lack of game. Clothes don't make up for that. Based on your mindset with your OKC…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:01 PM
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Yup for most humans there is only so much you can accomplish on your own and you will plateau pretty quickly. I would focus on developing close relationships. Humans are social animals and high quality relationships are often much more satisfying than most things you can do on your own. I have no kind of relationship with my family or any friends. My family was never close and I never really had a desire to have friends. I would really look to the core of why this is and keep working on a soluti…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:09 PM
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Men lie just as much. Just about different things.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:38 PM
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I want to know how I can avoid bad habits and keep this self-impeovnement going strong. Be AWARE of your bad habits and NOTICE the exact moment your bad thought patterns start to emerge. INTERRUPT your bad thought habit and REPLACE with a habit you want to have. Repeat ad nasuem. If you stick with it (it will be very difficult), you will eventually overwrite your bad habit with another one.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:34 PM
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It sounds like you've been reading /r/incels too much. Quit blaming your failures on factors you can't control. This is what you're doing. You're 18 days into a life improvement phase which is the equivalent of finally putting on your swim trunks when learning how to swim. Life isn't like video games. There are no immediate results nor number that go up with fireworks when you improve. It is a long, steady, sometimes seemingly unrewarding path. I've started going from beta to alpha Get rid of th…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:30 PM
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Reading books and exercising won't improve your social skills. There's only one way to improve them: by practicing them. Just like any other skill, social skills are acquired through repeated practice. So put yourself in more situations. Join more after school clubs. Find social hobbies outside of school. Instead of spending your evenings playing video games, try to fill it with social activities (obviously leave time for study/exercise). For an easy first step, start speaking more with your fam…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:23 PM
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It depends on the type of relationship. The book you're referencing is targeted for building professional type relationships. Not saying it doesn't work otherwise, but you wouldn't necessarily use the same concepts in dating for instance. If someone states something flat out wrong should you just ignore it and play along? Depends on the situation. You be the judge. Is the argument worth it? It might be, might not be. If someone asks about your opinion should you be honest and tell them your opin…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:18 PM
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Be an adult and realize nobody really gives a shit about you except you and probably your mom.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:55 AM
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Sounds like she's interested if you met her and made out with her in person. Try to minimize FB and phone and in general non personal communication. You guys are young and are not experienced in communicating properly so stupid bullshit like waiting to respond over FB can have you reading into shit that isn't true. Get her to come out more. If she keeps making excuses, then next her.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:53 AM
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Save any messages from her (in print). Record any converstaions you have with her from now on. Then, Delete and block her number. Block her on all social media. Never contact her again. If she contacts you, record it and do not respond. If anyone mentions her to you, tell them you've blocked her on everything and she is stalking you. NEVER CONTACT HER AGAIN.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:46 AM
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where should I go from here? Straight to the bars to get your dick wet and get over her. If she gave two shits about you she'd make sure she was with you, either by inviting you or staying home with you. Especially when she says shit like wanted to hang out with me So she's lying. You can do better
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:37 AM
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+1 When you play any of the games of life, you can either win or lose. By not playing, you always lose. Unless of course, you create your own game...
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:32 AM
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Can someone explain to me why this is happening? People are attracted to other people similar to themselves. Broken people are attracted to other broken people. Healthy people gravitate towards healthy people. Is there a way to fix it? You are (probably) an adult, or old enough to have the emotional maturity to realize the truth about you, your feelings, and your relationships. Thus, you have the absolute freedom to change your life as you see fit. The first step is simply recognizing the proble…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:28 AM
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The kind of meditation that was described in Mindfullness in Plain English. Book written by a buddhist monk that goes into great detail about their style of meditation, without letting the religious aspect overshadow it. Funny enough, it really wasn't anything to do with nofap looking back at it now.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:21 AM
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Church. My LTR goes to church (I don't) and I've been to several events/parties hosted by her church friends and the girl:guy ratio is 3:1 and the single guys are pretty much zero competition. Most of the girls are LTR seeking and not really into casual sex but not always.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:32 PM
1

Whatever works you brother. Personally I'm more conservative and if a woman reacted positively to those kinds of videos she wouldn't be LTR material for me. And casual sex doesn't really excite me much anymore.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:28 PM
1

Here's a snippet of advice. If you don't want a 9-5 desk job, then don't go for a college degree that specializes in churning out 9-5 careers. E.g. engineering, business, etc. Btw any manager/leader climbs the ladder for 5-10 years working 9-5 jobs to then transition to a 9-6 job commanding the 9-5 peons. Here's the deal. Smart people can do anything. Literally anything. You can graduate with a degree in English and go work as an engineer if you can otherwise prove you are an expert in engineeri…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:23 PM
2

Yea when you're calling her your little whore and you're just fucking, you don't really revert to friendship levels afterwards. Lordthunderbolt has it right;
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:13 PM
1

Sleep is important. Here is a long post I wrote about sleep a while ago https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5l31fj/how_to_sort_out_sleep/dbsr05v/
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:04 PM
1

But show the same guy a video of her getting three holed at a frat in her college years and he will react. You're right, but also any woman worth dating should react similarly if she's shown a video of you three holing a chick at a frat with your bros.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:01 PM
0

What does that tell you?
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:58 PM
6

Depends what you want. I'll just give them friendly hug, maybe talk for a couple minutes Sure, there's no reason to burn bridges. Would it be better to just ignore them and do my own thing? Unless they seriously wronged you, and even then I'd say it would be more emotionally healthy to overcome it and go say hi anyway. Or should I be a little bit of an asshole and tease them about something, maybe something fun sounding but a little pointed? Not necessarily an asshole, but you could always game …
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:19 PM
3

Do you sleep enough? Do you exercise 4-5 times per week? Do you eat healthy? Is your bloodwork from your last physical fine? Are your vitamin D levels healthy? Do you actually give a shit about your job?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:16 PM
2

No. It's basic economics. There is only one surefire way to be rich besides being born into wealth. Make money, save money, have your money make money. Those are the basics. It's true regardless of whether you are an office drone, run your own business, or are a dictator of a 3rd world country.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:40 PM
2

Secure income Minimize spending Save money Invest money /r/financialindependence
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:28 PM
1

To what the other poster says, and don't openly hit on girls you're driving. This can backfire way too easily.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:24 PM
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why am I grossed out by an high n-count? Are you really grossed out by it or did you become grossed out by it because of TRP? Was this your thought before ever discovering this side of the internet?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:23 PM
3

I don't think I'm unattractive If this is true, then your pictures suck. I know for a fact this was true for me. None of my friends take pictures so I had no "good" pictures of me. My current LTR is much more photography so now I have many good pictures to use in case I ever need them again.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:22 PM
2

We are all human after all are we not? Pussy is still pussy regardless if you make one dollar or tens of millions of dollars.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:19 PM
2

Dunno about 1 but I can answer 2. Depends on your goals. Are you trying to sweep your insecurities under a rug without solving the root cause? Do as you say. Do you care more about your image than the actual result? Do as you say. Do you not feel guilt about lying to yourself constantly? Do as you say. Are you actually trying to improve yourself? Do the opposite. The most successful people I've met have the exact opposite mindset, where they assume they know the least of anyone in the room. This…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:17 PM
1

Not trying to sound like an asshole, but literally going anywhere outside with other people. You'll be too busy socializing/doing other shit and you can't (won't?) watch porn in public. Most porn addictions on nofap are the result of spending too much time at home on the internet.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:09 PM
3

I guarantee she won't know enough about it to help you with 5x5. Find the guys who squat heavy for squat help. The guys who deadlift heavy for deadlift help etc. Don't ask the incredibly fit girl who does machines all day because even though she's fit, she doesn't know anything about heavy lifting.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:48 PM
1

You see having to fit in as a negative, but I see it as positive. I take pride in my ability to adapt my social attitude depending on who I'm with. Take it as practice in being in control of how you act. Of course once you do something enough, you become that. So if you really feel like you're surrounded by people you don't want to be surrounded by, get away. Find a new job, new friends, new hobbies.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:46 PM
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I started with 5x5 stronglifts and it worked well for me. Be sure to ask the more experienced looking people around for form critique if you are unsure you are doing the exercises correctly. picking up at the gym is always a no-no right? Not really, but there's easier places to practice your social skills with women. she prepared a new one for me, Also, don't use female personal trainers. Don't use most male personal trainers either. Find a personal trainer who has the body type you want, and ge…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:00 PM
2

A good amount, mostly college friends. You have to remember that writing and speaking will sound differently. When I first started working out of college, I made to sure to act more professional in emails and conversations with superior. Or to be more formal and "well-spoken" and I was given compliments about how mature I was for a 22 year old. The internet, memes, forum posting, inability to focus long enough to read a book all dumb us down so you're right about that. But there's nothing stoppi…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:57 PM
1

For me, there is nothing better than having sex with a woman you have an emotional connection with. You're 19 so you really won't feel it but when you mature a bit emotionally and get over the desire to jerk off several times a day, start looking for a deeper connection than just a hole to put your dick in. You can probably achieve something similar now with an LTR you actually enjoy having around. Casual/one time sex won't be nearly as good.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:51 PM
2

cool story bro
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:49 PM
4

The language isn't outdated. The anecdotes are. This is how well-spoken and literate people write. Read more books.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:48 PM
2

For form check: /r/formcheck/ (there's a subreddit for nearly any topic) I've had questionable experience with personal trainers. How can a guy/girl who isn't jacked (especially if they're a young dude) properly advise me to lift heavy when they clearly don't do it? I've had the best experience going up to guys who obviously lift heavy and ask them to check out my form when I lift. They're almost always happy to help out. Remember everyone's body is different. I know people who have never lifted…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 03:07 PM
1

when society is going down like it is Is it really? Are you basing this off of reading TRP, or off actual statistical evidence? World poverty is decreasing. Less babies are dying due to health issues. There is less violence than ever (despite whatever the media shows you) As long as humans are capable of reproducing, our society is going nowhere. Like I mentioned in my previous post, our lifestyles and our values are changing, but there's nothing we can do about that. Technology, innovations, an…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 03:17 PM
1

My problem is that I haven't found something greater than me that I could die for Have children. Other than that, we do not live in a society worth dying for. We, as humans, have progressed beyond requiring death to achieve something. You see it as detriment. I see this as progress as a species. But, this is a newish concept for us and we, as a species, are still struggling to deal with finding meaning and to understand our roles in our little world. Survival is no longer the main concern, which…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:14 PM
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Quit blaming women for the faults in your life. Sure when you were younger and impressionable they may have led you down a path you no longer want to go down. Don't live in the past. Live in the now. Now, you know where you are and when you need to go. Harboring ill will towards those who have affected you before will do nothing to guide you to higher ground now. Remember, you think it's you vs the world. In reality it's you vs you. Rough list of steps: Achieve independence to remove toxic peopl…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 04:09 PM
1

Either way, if your SMV is high like you said but you're not getting girls, your game sucks. TRP on reddit doesn't do game really well. Check out this forum and the newbie section https://www.rooshvforum.com/forum-2.html
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:15 PM
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No you're autistic as fuck. You're failing to think clearly and are letting your emotions overcome you. Look how angry you are responding to internet comments. I guarantee you do not act much differently around these women. As much as you'd like to deny it, the tone in your posts reflect your inner self. Your inner self is desperate and angry, and women will sense this. This is what they do. Her: "Thanks for inviting me! But on weekend I and my boyfriend will go to place [Y] :) " No shit she wil…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:13 PM
3

I don't believe you. Record your pickup attempts and post them here. Post the entirety of the text thread with the girl whose number you get. You say FACTS, but really it's just subjective opinions on your part. You need a 3rd party perspective, you're clearly doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:06 PM
1

And for every one there is a normal person who made it big. Find those people.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:40 PM
1

You don't need to leave them forever. Just for a while until they lose interest in the girl. Also, most likely one or more of them will want to hang out with you and do whatever fun stuff you're doing without them because they're tired of the interaction with the girl (so go do fun shit)
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:39 PM
2

You own your height by accepting it. Not by completely denying its existence. "I am short and I am OK with it" not pretend it doesn't exist. Obviously it exists, it's just not the forefront of your thoughts when you are rejected. It's counterproductive to be unaccepting of things outside of your control.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:25 PM
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Well she is the only female that hangs out with this group of "gamers Yea that says everything you need to hear. From my experience, one or more of them are "interested" in her and until they get over her, you will need to occupy your time elsewhere. So use this time to expand yourself! Make new friends, find new hobbies etc.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:21 PM
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Though as soon as I get shot down, bam! "She turned me down because I'm short." This is a weak excuse. You have no room to get improve here. You can't magically grow taller. Pay more attention to areas you can improve. "My clothes didn't display my awesome personality well enough, need better style" "She didn't get a chance to touch my huge bicep, need to work on that subtle kino next time" "I talked too much about myself on our date, she lost interest" etc. etc. No point in being down about thi…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:16 PM
1

Do what other posters say. Don't go monk mode.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:12 PM
4

Unfortunately most of us don't live in Africa or Saudi Arabia where it's openly acceptable to act like how you describe.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:07 PM
4

We as humans are ambitious and want to move up in the world. Thus, if you are a 2%er, you usually are trying to move forward to the 1%. There is no better way to move up in the world than by networking and meeting people better than you. Unless you are Mark Zuckerberg or Elon Musk, you will not break past your social standing without this. Why not just pick up random girls and use the dating apps and not put so much time and effort into maintaining status? You could have just as much, probably m…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:04 PM
1

I love going out alone. I treat it as an adventure where I am the story writer. Your fun is 100% dependent on you and not anyone else. That is a large responsibility. The other day I was out by myself and was sitting on the stairs having a beer and looking at people, ready to call it a night. Then I thought, fuck it, gotta write a story. Came up to a group of 5 people and just started chatting with them. Ended up going to 2 other bars with them and having a great time meeting other people.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 03:01 PM
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You own something by not giving a fuck about it. Not by trying too hard to compensate. You've heard of short men having "Napoleon complex" where they try to act high and mighty because they're short. nor do I even talk my height with girls I'm interested in This is the correct response. You don't acknowledge it because you don't care because you are secure in yourself as a person that height is the last thing on your mind. Yea it's tough, sorry dude.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 02:57 PM
2

I had fun last night. Let's hang out after finals You talk too much. Keep it short and brief.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 02:52 PM
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Remember there is still a difference between being in control of your life, and game. Also, seducing quality women who are LTR material is a completely different beast than taking some drunk girl back home and giving her weed. Takes time, practice, and a willing mindset.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:55 PM
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Here's a post i wrote elsewhere: I completely disagree with TRP's monk mode. I believe it's a complete waste of time to separate yourself from practicing your social skills when doing self-improvement, especially with women. Think about science. Science deals with facts and not emotions/opinions. Science creates a theory, science learns a theory. How do you validate that theory? Real life experimentation. Treat your life scientifically. It's pointless to learn theory without practice. The idea b…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:32 PM
2

TRP is not a rulebook to life. It is merely a guideline on dealing with women. In the end, you do whatever you want. If you are the kind of man who wants to get married at 25 and have kids, and you've found a suitable woman, fucking do it. Life is too short to live how others tell you to live. How can I make TRP and my desire for a family jive? TRP is not a religion. Just take the ideas that make sense for you as a person and your situation and use them, and disregard the rest.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:30 PM
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https://www.anabolicmen.com/ejaculation-testosterone/ Masturbation doesn’t seem to affect testosterone levels in any significant manner. BUT Ejaculating to the point of “sexual exhaustion” can make it harder for your body to utilize testosterone. You sound like a teenager so jerking off til sexual exhaustion might be something you've gone through. You might have excess testosterone. But yes, having sex with another person increases T. Yup these are hormones. Life's rough. Pay more attention to k…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:27 PM
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Overthinking it. Lately she started texting me later like days later Either losing interest or actually busy. so i said that ill just text her next week when she has more time. Yup do it but don't hold expectations. Go game other women in the meantime.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:23 PM
2

I don't know if this is anger, sadness or a phase of my life. A combination of all 3. A man's early adulthood is usually coated in a lack of direction and a lack of experience, which can make life seem hopeless/meaningless. I recommend: Work on yourself. Keep your body and brain healthy. Keep educating yourself. Stay in shape. Eat well. Sleep well. Don't party too much. Stay away from hard drugs. Get hobbies. Play a sport. Learn to cook. Etc. Surround yourself with quality people. In particular,…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 06:19 PM
1

Read up on foreplay.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:15 PM
1

Put yourself in a situation where there are no distractions. If the weather is nice, go to a coffee shop, sit outdoors and read. Bonus points to approach cute girls you see. Or make it a habit. I read every night before i go to sleep in my bed. Even if it's for 5 minutes. Remember, you have to be patient to develop patience. So it will be hard.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:14 PM
1

These stories are too good to not be told So write your own book???
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:10 PM
1

Go to the travel section of rooshvforum.com
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:07 PM
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Your car. Or be an adult and close the door when at home
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:06 PM
1

https://medium.com/@cliffordoravec/the-epic-guide-to-bootstrapping-a-saas-startup-from-scratch-by-yourself-part-1-4d834e1df8c1
/r/askTRP27/04/17 02:05 PM
1

You are delusional. /r/financialindependence is a must read
/r/askTRP26/04/17 02:58 PM
1

Treat her like a male coworker who you act polite to and don't talk to besides the bare necessity.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 04:53 PM
1

It sure gave me confidence in my fighting ability. Much more confidence than I had the first day I walked into the gym. Does it transfer over to real life? Sure, but you can achieve the same effect with any other physically/emotionally demanding social activity.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:36 PM
2

Go explore nature. Go on a road trip. Go read a book. Literally anything.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:32 PM
1

Bear in mind, this girl and my girlfriend knows each other because​ we all in the same class. Nope. Don't shit where you eat. If you fuck around, you do it with someone your SO has zero chance of finding out.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 03:25 PM
3

Your list of red flags is three times as long as your list of green flags. No brainer
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:00 PM
1

Two hands used demonstrates abundance mentality. Clearly alpha.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 04:27 PM
2

just annoying to take a bunch of pills every 3 hours. No offense, but this is a fucking pathetic childish response. Too lazy to treat yourself. You know what you need to do. Stop being a lazy ass and adjust your life. It has to be done.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 04:26 PM
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Here are some aspects of TRP that work for LTRs: Take care of yourself (physically, mentally). Your health and family comes first. Your hobbies/interests come second. Your LTR fits somewhere after that. Do not sacrifice your own interests for the sake of the relationship. Don't get overtaken by petty bullshit. This applies to both you and her. As we get more comfortable, we have less of a filter and we latch on to stupid small shit more often. The longer you're around a person, the more you noti…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 04:16 PM
1

Jerk off with only your left hand Use no less than 2 grammatical structures per sentence (simple, complex, compound, compound-complex) Always wear sunglasses Ask stupid fucking questions
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:59 PM
2

Sometimes life throws you a curve ball. Sucks don't it? You have two choices when that happens. Ignore the problem and continue living your life. Accept the problem and the limitations it imposes on you, take all appropriate steps to tame it, and live within your new boundaries. Clearly you can't do 1. So you must do 2. Pain is your #1 problem. I hate medicating myself with any type of meds specifically for pain. You can either hate it and continue to have your episodes. Or you can accept that i…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:55 PM
1

Here's a basic convo starter I usually do with random people at a party I've never met before: Get their name, shake hand, tell my name. Make a humorous comment about them/what they're wearing/people around you/happenings around you. Make them laugh. Ask a question. Easy one is "How do you know host?" "How did you get involved with this group" etc Make a humorous comment about said question. If their answer is actually interesting, I go with a more serious followup. Feel free to throw in comment…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 10:45 PM
1

NoFapping at your age without getting laid is impossible. 3 days is nothing anyway. If it was 3+ months maybe it would be worth following. Everything is fine in moderation. Porn is fine in moderation. Do you spend hours inside watching porn when you could be out socializing? That's a problem. I'm gonna project my experiences here, but anytime I have a problem with porn it's almost always because I spend too much time indoors doing nothing and use porn more of a relief of boredom as opposed to ac…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 05:21 PM
1

You think too much. There's too much philosophizing in your post. So of course, you sit there and think about everything that could be and why it's not. Instead, go out and do shit. Act first, then think.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:46 PM
4

Not gonna lie, I have a thing for "bigger" asian women. Wouldn't want to be seen in public with one though. Lay a trail of bacon for them to follow to your room so nobody seems them with you.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:43 PM
1

Went to a party as an 18 year old, attempted to close, friends stopped her, couldn't finish, how fix Next party, try again. Eventually you'll succeed
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:41 PM
1

I'm not reading past the first paragraph, but if your friendship had any kind of bumps in the road because one of you wouldn't sell drugs to the other for some reason, you're not really friends. You're just guys who do drugs together.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:37 PM
1

Like another poster said, desperation will prevent you from getting laid. You're an 18 year old dude which means you have your first taste of freedom and your balls are itching to be emptied in some girl. We've all been there. We've also all realized that getting laid takes effort and dedication, mostly to improving yourself. I spent most of my time socializing within my asian community So go outside the community. College is the prime time to expand. You are an international student in a new cu…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:31 PM
1

Those girls are fucking stupid. You can type in someone's number on facebook and it usually gives you that person. Obviously doesn't work if your number isn't hooked up to FB. I've almost never had a problem looking up girls this way if I wanted to. To answer your question though, just call them out on their intentions and mention something along the lines of meeting IRL being much better than e-stalking me. But for girls with lots of options, they want to fully screen you before they "waste the…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:27 PM
3

You have two options about these discussions. Be honest about your intentions. If you are not interested in marriage, that's fine and you can tell her. This can obviously have the effect of her leaving. If you are interested in marriage (eventually), it's good to lay that out front especially if you're looking for an LTR so you can at least see if your long term goals are aligned. Lie and not answer the question. "Do you want to ever get married?" "Maybe if the right girl comes along" This is a …
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:24 PM
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What the fuck kind of question is this? So what do I do here if I'm not interested in hooking up or anything? Uninstall the app. Seriously????
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:20 PM
1

Here is a simple 6 step process to overcome your LTR's disapproval of anal. Take a nice shower together. Scrub every last part of her. Most notably her asshole. You do wash each other's assholes right? After drying off, pick her up and take her to your bed. Eat her asshole. ??? Profit
/r/askTRP15/03/17 10:08 PM
1

alright so you don't need to say anything, I want to let you know get rid of this. that's 15 words that literally add nothing I'll be at the local library at 4pm. join me don't pussyfoot around. just say what needs to be said. she has no social skills. don't let her think. just tell her what to do. ofc it could just push her away but at this point like you said, you don't give a shit What should I say if she asks why I want her to join me? something funny "So we can learn about dinosaurs togethe…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 10:05 PM
3

hopefully one day Why not today? There's several levels of gamer: The casual gamer who plays a few hours per week as a hobby to relax or socialize with his friends. Nothing wrong with it. The hardcore gamer who has made gaming his career via streaming/pro gaming/entertainment/media/merchandise/communities/whatever. Nothing wrong with it. The hardcore gamer who plays games just as much as #2 but has nothing to show for it in real life. This is bad. Be #1 or #2
/r/askTRP10/03/17 06:20 PM
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last night she texted me she was at a bar with her friends and needed a plus one. She wanted to show her friends that she is a "strong independent alpha girl" who has men at her beck and call. She gamed you. What do you do next? Find a girl to chase you instead of the other way around.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 06:13 PM
1

There is nothing feminine about being in touch with your emotions and being able to display them in a confident manner. In fact, trying to suppress your emotions constantly will fuck you up over time. Not expressing your emotions is dangerous, as you hide the truth from yourself. That said, men and women will display their emotions in different ways.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 04:57 PM
3

It's unrealistic to expect to get laid nonstop whenever you want it. Life just doesn't roll that way. Sometimes you just need to empty your balls. That's what masturbation is for. Porn assists with masturbation. Problem is, it's way too easy to replace getting laid entirely with porn. Plus, porn is addicting and easily accessible. So do you have a problem with it? Does it affect your life negatively? If not, whatever. IMO, it's all fine in moderation.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:50 PM
4

If someone hinted, hey why dont you go out with "girl a", Tell them you're not interested in her. Done. No need to think any more deeply about it.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:47 PM
4

Then you don't have good social skills. There's only one way to get better at talking to women, and that's talking to women. Take the plunge, make mistakes, be awkward, get rejected, and then try again. It'll improve. You are afraid of the pain of rejection. Embrace the pain, and learn from it, instead of being afraid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 05:19 PM
2

Conversely, straight up tell her "You need to initiate more" and see how she handles it.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:05 PM
2

You'd be surprised about how uncommon things that are "common" sense are. Remember, everyone's common sense is different. As I've gotten older and have met more people, I've noticed things that to me are common sense are often not even considered by other people and vise-versa. Everyone had different parents that taught them different styles of communication, everyone was raised in different environments with different people and everyone has had different experiences with past relationships. Pa…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:58 PM
1

The other poster says cultivate Abundance. There is only one way to do that. Have sex with those women. Then you realize it's not a big deal. Then you stop thinking about them like that.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:45 PM
1

I know exactly how you feel. My levels of narcissism have severely dropped over time after meeting more and more people. I've convinced myself that most other people are not really worth dealing with I've actually managed to drop a lot of my preconceived judgements about people by going into deep conversations. When I meet people, I try to avoid small talk. Ask meaningful questions. This is how you cut through the bullshit and get to learn what people really think, what makes them tick, and you …
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:40 PM
1

Have you asked her why she never initiates? Could be infinitely many reasons. We can only speculate.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:33 PM
4

Then we spend the next day and night together hungover, eating, watching netflix You ruined it here. This brings back too many feels from the LTR. You want to plate an ex? Don't spend time with her other than sex.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:30 PM
1

Passion and warmth. Lack of emotional investment means you are coming off as cold and distant. Make the sex/date fiery hot. Give it 100%. Don't hold back. I don't mean fuck her harder. I mean really, truly commit to it. In the moment, give yourself to her. When you are on a date, you have to genuinely be passionate about her. This is very hard to fake. People can sense realness vs fakeness. Only truly hardened players can fake this kind of feeling, and I think that it makes them incapable of act…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:25 PM
1

Issues like this are rooted somewhere deep inside you and the best way to deal with it is therapy. However like you said you have no money. If you are on your parents insurance, you could try to find a therapist that is covered by your insurance or find some group therapy which might be cheaper.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:21 PM
1

Everyone has different morals and values. Know yours and stick to them.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:12 PM
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Only you can find your own end goal. TRP is about giving you a framework to disallow women and modern dating from distracting you from your end goal.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:11 PM
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This one is hard for some people. For guys like you, a lot of your positive traits are those that make you a good father/provider. Loyal, intelligent, caring, honest, ambitious, gentle etc. That transfers well to an LTR. Does not transfer well to casual sex. Stop putting light on those traits of yours when setting up for casual sex. Tell her about the questionable things you did that one time you got hammered with your friends instead of your college degree and your career. "What do you do for w…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 04:40 PM
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The average woman only cares that you're taller than her when she wears heels. The average woman is 5'5". You don't know how much pussy I've lost because I wasn't tall, and I was SUPPOSED TO BE TALL. You didn't lose the pussy because you're not tall. You lost the pussy because of your Napoleon complex (you're not even short!!!) and the negative mindset that poisons all of your interactions as a result. You simply are disqualified by the top 60% of women You disqualify yourself in your head. You …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 04:27 PM
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Get a girlfriend. You don't really have time like you said to go around and game women all the time. Nor is it worth it for you at the moment.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:50 PM
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What The Red Pill Comunity think of her? She is a woman. Is she a unicorn? No Or is just a matter of time before she finds out the power she has between her legs and go riding the cc? Why don't you just stick your dick in there and absorb that power instead of worrying about what could be?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:46 PM
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This is a pretty popular book about morning routines how does anyone make it without routine? How to master anything without it? It's hard to. Humans are creatures of habit. You described it well enough in your post.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:44 PM
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Branch out from your classes and meet women at social clubs and activities. That's where the people who actually want to socialize go. I've met plenty of people in classes who are hellbent on doing nothing but studying and are not interested in social experiences.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:44 PM
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If you want to really solve the emotional issues, go see a therapist of some kind. You have deep rooted issues that will not be solved easily. TRP tends to sweep emotional issues under the rug by ignoring them and focusing on self improvement. Unforunately this doesn't solve your emotional issues and as a result, as you can see, you're just as confused. You may be physically stronger/be better at talking to women but inside you're no healthier.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:38 PM
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Literally anything. That's what you don't get. You can say literally anything and transition it to a conversation. "Nice shoes" "It's cold today but you look really warm" "Where'd you get your coffee? Is it tasty?" Then she answers. You respond. How do you respond? That's where the practice comes in.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:36 PM
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You keep asking that question means you just don't understand the underlying problem. You can't apply a tried and true formula to social skills. You just can't. Every situation and every person is different. This is like a fat guy asking how to not be fat and he gets answers of "eat well and exercise" and he responds "yea but how do I just not be fat right now?" There are not shortcuts to life. Social skills are acquired skills. You have aspergers which means you will need to work harder to acqu…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:15 PM
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Ice cream. Frozen yogurt. Coffee. Bowling. Walk in the park. Museums. Anything where you can chat 1 on 1 and be in close proximity. Google "stuff to do in my city"
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:08 PM
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Best way is to practice non pickup situations. PUA takes a lot more social skill than just chatting to strangers. Join a club or start up a hobby that involves other people (sports, book clubs, meetups etc) and just talk to a lot of people.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:06 PM
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should I not post those Post the party pics that fill the niche. Rock girls? Post pics of the live band. Of yourself with the lead guitarist. Of yourself with a group of people doing \m/ Focus less on the girls and more on the experience. man I like rock and roll girls and hip hop girls, is my niche too big Nah
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:33 PM
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Because most people are too afraid to talk to strangers. People also by default, are always right in their own eyes(ego). Thus, you, who isn't afraid to talk to strangers when they are, must be a creep because they are not willing to admit that they are just afraid. It's basic hamsterization.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:28 PM
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How does an Indian guy get over this race demon You just crush it. I think it's even easier for you because to women, like you said, the Indian stereotype is scrawny nerd. Hit the gym, get some nice clothes, be cool and not desperate and you will look like a fucking rock star in comparison to your people. no Indian guys for him to look up to? At some point, the role model will have to come from within, or from unconventional source (gasp non Indian people)
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:18 PM
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I will probably lose a couple grand How the fuck are you gonna lose a couple of grand if she's flying to you and paying for it. You can get an airbnb/cheap hotel for like $50-70 a night in most parts of the country.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:17 PM
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Don't be afraid to get help for your problems, especially if you can't solve it yourself and it's crippling you. Don't expect others to completely solve your problems for you but also know it's OK to ask for help and guidance.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:14 PM
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I have aspergers so I don't know what would be appropriate to talk about with a stranger so early on, that's why I need help with this. Cold approaching on the street will be tough for you. I start out by making small talk Make the small talk situational. Make the small talk appear big. In a grocery store and she's buying a vegetable? Ask her how she's gonna cook it. Make jokes. One basic thing PUA does is to pretend like you're lost and are looking for something. "I'm looking for the coffee sho…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:11 PM
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On another note, here is a really quality datasheet on how to use instagram to run game. Note that none of it involves posting pictures of yourself with women.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:05 PM
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Social media is a tool. Powerful men adapt to the times and use whatever tools are at their disposal. (But not for the purposes of OP)
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:58 PM
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Noone will truly care.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:57 PM
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primarily goal has been to be rich I don't want to dissuade you, but I've found that people who make this their goal rarely achieve it and are happy. Read this The whole thing is an excellent read but read part 2. The author is the 69th richest person in the world. But I absolutely love working in the hospitals Happiness and a desire to improve others lives will make you much more richer than just being financially rich. In fact that's one of the aspects I'm struggling with right now. I make goo…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:58 PM
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far it seems to be a total failure Actually not a failure. Most things tend to start small. Then get bigger over time. Hell one other person would be a good start. Success does not happen overnight. If you really want to build a social circle, keep it consistent. That is, meet consistently. Social clubs work because they meet every week. You must do the same. It is a lot of work to run a social circle. It is so much easier to join already existing ones.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:51 PM
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I'm a coder. Here's my perspective from some of my life experiences. You don't need a degree in CS to be a coder. You can get a degree in underwater basket weaving and as long as you know how to code, and can prove to a company that you can code, they'll hire you (Note that this does not work for all companies, but I wouldn't want to work at a company which requires a piece of paper that says I have a degree to code). In fact, if you want to run an independent venture then getting a CS degree wo…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:47 PM
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Your arguments are flawed. they have not achieved anything worthy of admiration. Everything they achieve, a man usually already did it or can do it better. It is only called an achievement when a women repeats it. The few things they do achieve by themselves are not things I find admirable Replace 'women' with 'other men' and this is still true. In fact just replace 'women' with 'another person' the jobs they hold in society are either meaningless (HR, marketing) or can be done by a man better (…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:34 PM
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Either way, think for yourself. You should have enough life experience at this point to make a wise judgement. Sounds like you just want someone to tell you what to do.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:29 PM
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It kinda sounds pretentious to be honest. Does it really or do you just think that because you're essentially faking a persona? Go up to a complete stranger with your deep voice and ask them their honest opinion what they think about it. You can change the way you speak. Increase your confidence. Increase your vocabulary. Improve your posture. Improve your clothing. Speaking confidently (not pretentiously like you think) will be much more natural. Go to a toastmasters meeting near your area. Gre…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:26 PM
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People say move. Sometimes that's not an option. You must adapt to your circumstances. %99 of women go to clubs with their BFs or guys from their social circle. You just asnwered your own question. Join their social circles. Go make guy friends. Get invited to the club when they go out. You wanna just be a player and get laid a lot? Good luck, your circumstances are against it.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:22 PM
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End Game is death. Seriously though, you are asking a bunch of kids half your age what the purpose of life is. Only you can answer that. Use your life experiences to drive what makes you happy. TRP is a decent guideline to take care of yourself and not let women destroy you. Everything else is up to you.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:19 PM
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Congratulations. Whatever you're doing is the right first step. You want to get a woman interested in you? Get her to talk about herself. She's talking about herself means she's comfortable enough to open up to you. Now you run your game. Interject here and there with a joke. Make her laugh. Get her to go deeper. Especially with her feelings. "But how did that make you feel?" "Oh I bet that was extremely frustrating" "You must have been the happiest person on earth" Tell fun stories relating to …
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:13 PM
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I also meditate which helps but I just have little to no control of my mind. Meditate more. The trait you need to break a bad though pattern is mindfulness, which can be trained by meditation. Check out this book The key here is to train your mindfulness to the point where you start to recognize your subconscious behavioral patterns (negative though patterns) in order to then manually override them. Impossible to change your habits if you first don't recognize when they happen.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:06 PM
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Invest into the local females.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:10 PM
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This site delves into what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:08 PM
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Something much more important to keep up on is news related to your profession. If you want to get ahead in your career, you should be learning as much as you can about it. Find a news aggregator and/or bloggers who post about your domain.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:08 PM
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Ah ok then yea go ahead and focus on yourself. You literally are invisible to women. To answer your question of getting over her faster: keep yourself busy. Every minute you are not doing anything, or you are bored, your mind will stray to her. That's normal. Don't get bored. Obviously you can't spend all of your free time exercising and dieting, but pick up a hobby. Learn guitar. Read books. Anything that requires focus and keeps you busy.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:06 PM
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For valentines day, get her perfume made of your cum.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:08 PM
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You need therapy. Lots of it. And no doctor did any good. Find a psychiatrist/therapist whose goal is self improvement and living a healthy life AND NOT a quick diagnosis with a pill prescription. Maybe one that specializes in parental abuse and bullying. You have way too many fucked up and self-destructive thought processes that need to be addressed. Good luck.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:05 PM
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I completely disagree with TRP's monk mode. I believe it's a complete waste of time to separate yourself from practicing your social skills when doing self-improvement, especially with women. Think about science. Science deals with facts and not emotions/opinions. Science creates a theory, science learns a theory. How do you validate that theory? Real life experimentation. Treat your life scientifically. It's pointless to learn theory without practice. The idea behind monk mode is to separate "s…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:00 PM
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I've done the insecurity confrontation too many times to make that mistake again though I'm gonna stop you right here and say re-evaluate if it's really worth having this woman in your life. If she can't look at herself like an adult without you feeling it was a "mistake", fuck that noise. She needs therapy.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:52 PM
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Post with a throwaway account and anonymize/change some minor details so the gist of the story is the same but it's not identical to what actually happened.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:50 PM
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'who's that girl youre texting/talking to' "My bff jill" 'you just want me for my body/sex' "Hell yea" and slap her ass. Or realize your girl is insecure af and no amount of you saying anything will overcome it unless you get her to realize it and fix her own issues. 'this guy was flirting with me/being creepy towards me blah blah blah' Let her rant and then change the subject. 'i miss you/do you miss me' "I miss that ass of yours" Also I like to send poop emojis. 'look how hot I am/I'm so hot' …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:43 PM
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A good question to ask is, what is the cause of rebelliousness? Pretty much by definition, to rebel is to have your inner Child acting out. What is your inner Child? The collection of memories and feelings from when you were growing up in response to your parenting. The child is impulsive and wants pleasure NOW. As we become Adults, our inner Adult should learn to control the Child. This controls our impulses and is the reason we are able to prioritize long term consequences over short term plea…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:51 PM
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So I say "ok" and leave Just keep this up. I'd just say "lol ok" and then forget about her for a week.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:43 PM
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The whole point of santa is to create a sense of wonder and magic for your children. When I grew up and realized Santa isn't real, the feelings I had were nowhere near as strong as when my dad dressed up as Santa to deliver presents to me when I was 4 years old. One of my earliest memories. Of course, I learned it was actually my dad a few years later.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:41 PM
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The needy mindset: I am desperate. I need this to be happy. I WANT THIS SO BADLY I WILL DO ANYTHING. If I do not get this, I will be extremely upset and angry The persistent mindset I have a goal. I will be happy if I meet the goal but I will also be content if I do not. The goal will not make or break me. I will do everything in my power to meet the goal. The needy person and the persistent person can actually do the exact same thing and say the exact same words but everything will be so much d…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:37 PM
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Probably shouldn't even have entered into an LTR at this point in my life. You literally did the opposite of what I just said. Instead of learning, you just hate. This is a cynical mindset. This is toxic to you. You do not want this. Easier said than done Obviously. But you cannot make progress if you don't learn to accept pain as a learning lesson to make yourself stronger.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:32 PM
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You're 18. Get the fuck out of that living situation. Here's a rough list of priorities for you: Strive towards a career (college/trade school/non-seasonal job with advancement possibility) Get the fuck out of living with her. Move back in with your parents. Seriously. Save money while looking for a career path. You're in a tight spot. Call your dad and say "I fucked up, I need your help". Or whatever family member you trust the most. If you can't do 1 or 2, get a job. Now. I don't care what it …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:27 PM
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Confidence comes from two things: A history of success A mindset that no matter the outcome, you'll be just fine. Success comes with practice, repetition, and failure. The only way to get better at something is to fail repeatedly until you start getting better. slow process to gain confidence through that Note the 'slow process'. Anything worthwhile in life is slow and requires patience. Keep at it. Treat failure as a learning opportunity. Make goals and progress towards them. Everyone sucks at …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:23 PM
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By far the easiest way to make male friends is to play a sport with other guys. Then, just show up consistently and you'll make friends over time.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:18 PM
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I feel dumb as fuck. Change your mindset. Treat pain as an opportunity to learn and reflect instead of beating yourself down over it. Ask yourself, "What did I do wrong?" "What could I have done better?" "What am I going to do differently next time?" Every relationship is a learning opportunity.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:16 PM
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Works for me with my style of humor. I make retarded jokes like that all the time and people love them. You can do pretty much anything with a shit eating grin on your face and get away with it. It works even better if you don't have huge biceps and have a slim athletic build so they can tell you're just fucking around.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:55 PM
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By being in a commited/exclusive relationship, you are establishing certain boundaries and are essentially creating a mutual trust and respect with another person. To me, breaking this boundary and cheating is disrespect. Why the fuck would you want to be with someone you respect so little that you want to cheat on them? Dump them and find a better woman. Of course life is complicated sometimes but for the most part, either solve your problems with your partner, dump them, or don't get into a re…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:53 PM
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Practice with your family and your close friends. I use touch with both men and women. I go up to a buddy, slap my hand on his shoulder and say what's up. It's just a natural part of conversation.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:38 PM
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Doesn't matter. She's saying something positive. Say anything that's positive or humorous to continue the positive train. "Thanks. Cute people like us should stick together." "I know, I look at myself naked in the mirror all the time" and kiss your bicep "Thanks, I have perfect genetics actually" "I actually look cuter naked" etc. Just keep it happy and funny. Sexualize it lightly if you want.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:34 PM
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After you've been with enough women, looks become boring. All the semi-pretty girls look the same, and you want the hotter ones. Similar to drug tolerance: you do enough and small doses become boring. You need a bigger dose to get high. So stop treating women like a drug. High quality women can offer a lot more than just a hot piece of ass. It's also very hard to find a high quality woman. Try focusing your search on women who make high quality companions rather than just good eye candy.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:32 PM
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I've read How to win friends and influence people but it still dont work. It just makes people like me Yes that is how you make friends. First step is to make them like you. That's exactly what you want. They like you -> they are more accepting to hang out with you. One thing it sounds like you're doing is waiting for people to ask you to hang out. I realized that life rarely works this way. If you want to hang out with people, YOU have to take the initiative. Wanna watch a movie with some peopl…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:22 PM
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As a (former) functional stoner, learn a new skill: no improving: directly, no, but I become very introspective and can gather a lot of information about myself which I can then use when sober to improve. 75/25 useful/stupid high thoughts. OK to do once in a while creative: can't really speak to this one, you'll be able to answer this better about yourself than me
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:10 PM
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Invite her to fun things you do with your friends. You do fun things with your friends right? Then tell her "feel free to bring your friends. especially if they're hot". Skip the last part if you don't have the confidence to say it without sounding like a bitch.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:06 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain and say spend less time reading and spend more time out there in the real world, practicing and applying what you've read. Whether that is talking to women or just doing social activities. You'll hit diminishing returns on reading theory very quickly, and you'll retain a tiny amount of it without actually doing.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:56 PM
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South park told it best about pot. When you're smoking pot, you're not learning anything or improving your life in any way. Do it to relax once in a while. Don't make it a hobby. Moderation is key. I used to be a heavy smoker (multiple times per day). Now I do it a few times per year. My tolerance is gone so I get really high off a little amount, and every time is super memorable because I do it so rarely. My overall enjoyment of smoking has significantly increased by significantly decreasing ho…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:46 PM
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I love it when a girl knows exactly what she wants as a gift. It means I know exactly what I need to do: deliver the gift with a fun twist. Just have fun with it. Describe her tits in a way Dostoevsky describes leaves falling from the trees.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:49 PM
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What a pathetic outlook. i'll go back to my boring life. I guarantee this will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Call yourself a loser and thus you will be a loser. Boredom is the death of the soul. Go find interesting shit to do. Don't let one woman not texting you back for god knows what reason wreck you. Where is your self esteem? Where is your ability to handle rejection and mild psychological pain? It never happened before Oh. Inexperience. Don't worry. This is just the game of life. Don't let…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:14 PM
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You know how TRP tells you to wait to reply to women so you don't appear needy and make yourself seem like you're a busy person whose time is valuable? They are doing the exact same thing. Or, she's just not that into you. Or, she's working or something.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:47 PM
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Racism in North America (mostly USA) against blacks is not going anywhere anytime soon. Read this thread though
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:45 PM
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There is only one way to overcome this fear. It's to get laid. People saw flight as an impossible task. Until someone invented the airplane. Riding a bike was an impossible task. Until you fell a bunch of times and learned how to do it. Getting laid seems like an impossible task. Until you put in the time and effort to improve yourself, talk to women, get rejected, get over it, talk to more women, and eventually get laid. That's it.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:42 PM
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So the way to recover from nofap flatline is to have sex. "BUT HOW CAN I HAVE SEX IF I CAN'T GET HARD??" Keep trying. Have her blow you until you do.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:39 PM
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Get a hotel. Women aren't cheap. You want to respect your LTR and fuck elsewhere, either find women with their own place, or get a $40 motel 6 for a few hours.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:38 PM
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I'd go for girls who are semi christian. Girls who use religion for spiritual purposes but don't live their life according to the bible. Impossible to tell which one yours is until you escalate though. I'd say escalate as normal but be patient. You might find out that she has an upper limit that you won't clear for a long time. Or not.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:18 PM
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The hell if I know I'll need to research the subject. Waste of time. You know what's gonna happen, it doesn't really matter why it happens. Either do it or don't.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 07:17 PM
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This is a decent comprehensive 'guide' to start setting goals towards all aspects of your life.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:29 PM
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Wait til thurs or fri
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:27 PM
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Nono, you don't invite her out. Invite her straight to your place. She's a plate, so you've already banged her. Just straight up invite her over. "Free on sunday? Come over"
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:07 PM
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Just tell her to come over to your place.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:41 PM
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Are you trying to outsource the writing of your porn game to reddit? If so, I demand to be on the list of credits.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:39 PM
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It's a show they put on. Women are being bombarded with marketing telling them how fat and unattractive they are, that other women are better looking than them, make more money than them, and are happier than they are. This self destructs the woman's self confidence. Of course, the reality is that magazines and instagram are not accurate pictures of reality and that marketing is a science that is fine tuned to fuck with people's psychology to get them to buy shit. Turns out, women buy shit when …
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:33 PM
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Treat her like any other woman, no need to pedestalize her because she's a virgin. Just keep it in the back of your mind if you have sex with her, she will be much more attached to you than girls who've had plenty of sex before. Not a problem if you want to LTR her.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:17 PM
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That sucks man, and yes, it does break your ability to trust other women. I have a feeling that's why a lot of men turn to TRP. It's up to you how to handle it. Are you confident enough in yourself that a woman cheating on does not mean all future women will cheat on you? Confident enough to look at why she might have possible cheated on you? Was it because she wasn't attracted to you anymore and you were blindly attracted to her? Was it because she was just a shitty person? Was it because she b…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:03 PM
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People socialize. People socialize using technology (insta/whatsapp/etc). Are you saying that a woman who socializes is a red flag? Do you prefer your woman to have no friends and to rely on you for social interaction? Saw 2 guys (Not better than me , but who knows?) Sounds like an ego/insecurity issue more than anything else.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:52 PM
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Most people are not capable of having honest relationships because of their own internal struggles that they don't deal with properly and project onto others. When you are down to earth with them, it's actually insulting them because they immediately perceive you saying "I'm better than you because I'm honest about myself and you're not" when in reality they're saying to themselves "You're better than me because you're honest with yourself and I'm not". Yes it sucks but it's human nature, people…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:44 PM
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It's really identity politics. TLDR is because we associate our identity with a side of culture/politics. E.g. "I am a liberal" vs "I have liberal beliefs" or "I am a red piller" vs "I have red pill beliefs"
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:39 PM
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Literally, even asking this question is not Zero Fucks Given, because you're giving enough of a fuck to ask. Making any effort to better yourself is not Zero Fucks Given, because you have to give a fuck to dress well, eat healthy, go to the gym, talk to girls, develop a reputation etc. What Zero Fucks Given really means is give a fuck about things that matter, like your happiness, your health, and your relationships. Don't give a fuck about things that don't matter, like petty women and their sh…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:37 PM
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Every person has different interests. I don't know what interests you. Any kind of sport is a good hobby because it combines fitness and social activity. Find a hobby where the social aspect is critical since that's what you need.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:31 PM
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This isn't dating. This isn't you trying to fuck the girl. This is you trying to have a working professional relationship. Suck up your ego and either deal with it, or solve the problem like you would with your boss.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:51 PM
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Then get out of the town if you can. Go learn a trade skill and move to a larger area. If you can't, looks like you have to make friends locally. Go invite your neighbors over for dinner. Go to a bar and shoot the shit. Go to church. Whatever.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:49 PM
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Imagine you had a friend who would, every day, bring you lunch. One day, your friend suddenly stopped bringing you lunch without warning. You are upset at your friend because you are used to having your lunch brought. Get the analogy? You are the friend, she is you. You stopped bringing her lunch so she got upset. Nothing abnormal. Basic human behavior. How to deal with it? Be direct with her and tell her "please include me in your gatherings". Organize the gatherings yourself (invite her anyway…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 08:13 AM
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I've been in monk mode for about the past year and a half maybe Get the fuck out of monk mode. Shouldn't be in it for more than a few weeks at most. It won't help you meet girls. I asked her for her number, and she said no. I was caught off guard by that Good job on asking. Get used to rejection. It's just the way of the world. Keep working on yourself. Dress better, build some muscle, get interesting hobbies, join social clubs to develop your social skills, (do all this while still trying to ge…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 08:06 AM
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Call and get it removed and then don't make the mistake again.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 07:59 AM
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Music TV shows Travel Pets Hobbies Books Anything else you can get them to say about themselves
/r/askTRP28/01/17 07:57 AM
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Now you know how unclean it feels. Remember this feeling the next time your dick tries to dictate who it wants to be inside of.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 07:55 AM
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Yes it's exhausting. Do not compromise your own health/interests. Don't prioritize spending time with your plates over sleeping/eating/fitness/hobbies/friends. If one plate takes up too much time, look for another that is less needy and drop the neediest one. It's OK to take a step back and go down to 1 or 2 or even 0 for a while if you need to recover and take some time off. Being a player is tough work and takes a lot of time. If you don't really enjoy it and are only doing it because TRP tell…
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:49 PM
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Others say its a very subtle shit test. This answer is retarded. If girls wearing headphones is too much for you to overcome, in other words you don't know what to say and are scared the headphones will interfere, in other words you have too little experience approaching. Try day gaming at malls/shopping areas/other places with girls who aren't wearing headphones to bring up your confidence so it's not an issue.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:44 PM
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Tennis is a great social sport. Just playing on a regular basis at your school's club/classes should give you a social circle, unless of course you don't talk to anyone there
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:45 PM
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Masturbating is natural and fine. Porn is what takes it to excess. Just so happens that most people almost never masturbate without porn. I agree that NoFap is culty, but porn addiction is a real thing. Read into your brain's dopamine levels when watching porn, they are very similar to doing amphetamine based drugs. And ignoring the brain part, the longer lasting effect is just something I noticed on myself when I don't watch porn for a while.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:44 PM
1

Option 1 if you know you will see her again soon. I've had some success with option 2 in the past (not necessarily after sex but just after meeting where I didn't get number for whatever reason), wait a few days or a week - "what's up? I had a good time, we should hang out again, what's your number?" If she doesn't reply, next time you see her, act like it never happened. FB/Insta are tools to get in touch with people. No reason not to use them. Don't do #3
/r/askTRP18/01/17 05:03 PM
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let alone cold approach people to try and make more friends/spit game. Don't need to do this in college. What are your hobbies? You have hobbies besides video games and TRP and lifting right? Join a social club that revolves around that hobby. Show up every week. Get good at the hobby. There's your social base. are there any books that I can read or things I need to do to gain back the confidence Books no. There is only one way to gain confidence, and that's not by reading theory. Go join a club…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:48 PM
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Depends where you wanna work. If you want to go corporate, you might run into some difficulty. If you go for a smaller company, it's much easier to make your case as a reformed person. Startups/contractors/online work/start your own business don't care at all. You can also work with a lawyer to get the misdemeanors expunged from your record.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:45 PM
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Could anybody help me properly handle these thoughts, not only so they go away, but so I can evolve past hating on these dudes, and feel secure enough The goal is to not make thoughts go away. This is equivalent to cleaning your room by throwing everything under the bed. People are insecure. People are jealous. It is humanity. What you are asking is not, "how can I stop feeling these feelings?", because that is not the solution. What you are asking is, "how do I control these feelings and preven…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:38 PM
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I've noticed a funny trend: when I stop watching porn for an extended period of time, I actually start to last longer during sex, which I thought would be the opposite due to less frequent releases.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:22 PM
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This forum has tons of great resources with a newbie section you can ask questions.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 07:01 PM
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You don't need to change your dick, you need to change your mindset. Instead of "oh no my dick looks different", say "hell yea my dick is unique"
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:57 PM
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You're scared. Only way to overcome your fear is to face it headon. Being around the first girl you like is scary. Do it with 10 different girls and it won't be scary anymore. Yea it's hard but it's how humanity has gotten this far. Someone takes their fear, ignores it, and perseveres. Read the overcoming pain part here
/r/askTRP16/01/17 06:56 PM
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This will be very tough on your body. Be sure to sleep 8 hrs/day and eat very well. I highly recommend replacing one of the lifting days with a yoga day if you want to focus more on MMA.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:12 PM
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Work harder on getting laid. My desire to watch porn is gone when I'm fucking on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:40 PM
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You can definitely have too much IDGAF. As you become experienced enough with not giving a fuck, you should start to recognize situations where, giving a fuck just a little can be worth its weight in gold. There are important things and unimportant things. DGAF about the uimportant things. GAF about the important things. Not caring about things important to you is a betrayal of yourself. As you become "better", you should be able to more easily identify things more important to you. If not, work…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:37 PM
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i just wanted to vent. Just letting you know, relaying all of this to a someone in real life, whether if be friend or family or anyone willing to listen, is much more satisfying than doing so online.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:34 PM
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I think monk mode is a waste of time. You sacrifice so much possible learning by deciding not to expand yourself socially. All of your self improvement skills are practiced in theory in a vacuum and are not tested in real circumstances. You should start testing in real circumstances ASAP. By reading all of these books without taking action on any of them, you will simply have wasted your time. If you want to gain something meaningful from them, read one MAYBE TWO and then immediately go outside …
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:33 PM
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I think monk mode is a waste of time. You sacrifice so much possible learning by deciding not to expand yourself socially. All of your self improvement skills are practiced in theory in a vacuum and are not tested in real circumstances. You should start testing in real circumstances ASAP. The fact that you are saying Shit SMV I'm around a 7 Shows cognitive dissonance within yourself. Do overcome this, you can't just sit in your room and meditate and lift weights all day. You need to expose yours…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:30 PM
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Read the sidebar. You clearly didn't
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:27 PM
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You could always be wrong in interpreting the IOIs is what I'm saying. Either way, you gave 0 details and it's one girl. You cannot gain anything meaningful from this. Go talk to 100 girls and if all 100 give you IOIs (from your perspective) but nothing happens, then you have a problem.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 10:49 PM
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If men didn't think, we wouldn't be where we are today. I think overthinking is a much bigger benefit than blissful ignorance. That said, everything in moderation. Do not let overthinking cripple you. At some point, you have to stop thinking and start acting. Here are a few ways to stop overthinking: When you have a thought, write it down. Then immediately stop thinking about it. Once a week, go through all your written thoughts and evaluate if any are actually worth pursuing. Be mindful of your…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:56 PM
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Agree and amplify. Turn every one of her digs into laughing and telling a joke. Also don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:49 PM
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Are you a self driven individual who is working his ass off under any circumstances and is determined to meet his goals no matter what and are already a salesman of his own accord before college was even thought about? Or are you ready to become this person today? If so, you don't need college. Just start towards your goal ASAP. If you're the kind of person who isn't really motivated enough to put in the work to carve your own path but just want to follow the path laid out to you in life by othe…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:47 PM
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Changing other people is impossible. What you can do is inpsire them to change themselves. Show them how happy you are. Be the happiest guy in the group with a huge grin on his face cracking jokes every time you hang out. Bring your attractive 20 yo plate and her friends when you're out at the bar with them. Sometimes people are set in their ways and are unwilling to change. That's life. Sometimes people understand when others are doing something better and are gonna ask questions "how are you s…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:42 PM
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I'd say you are misinterpreting the IOIs. She is probably just being nice to you.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:33 PM
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By even asking this question, your mindset is wrong and I'm pretty sure you have no game. The alpha does not need ANYTHING to be an alpha. A car is one of two things A tool to get from point A to point B. Most college campuses have everything you need within walking/biking/busing distance. A status symbol. Unless you are rich don't worry about this. NOTHING ELSE.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:29 PM
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When people say professional help, they don't mean check yourself into a mental institution. They mean go see a therapist. Not a fucking psychiatrist that prescribes meds, just a therapist. Why? Because there is something going on inside of you that you don't understand, that you want to understand. Many times, having someone who is a PROFESSIONAL at getting people to understand themselves, is a good thing. This does not mean you're a wacko. It just means you need some help figuring yourself out…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:22 PM
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You answered your own question. The title of the book is "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and not "How to seduce women and get them to suck your dick". A lot of the anecdotes in the book are about business relationships, casual networking, and just friends in general. NOT about getting laid. You wouldn't wait a day or two to reply to your friends would you? turn you into an ass kisser "Don't criticize, condemn." "Be lavish with your praise and appreciation" "Talk in terms of other perso…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 05:16 PM
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Take it to the grave IMO. There is no reason to tell her. Only to "clear your conscience". You dug your own hole with the lie, so deal with it. And it doesn't even matter anymore.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:07 PM
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Red pill or no, accepting defeat is the worst you can do. Yes it's hard and it hurts to fight but the hurt from fighting is better than the hurt from giving up. Otherwise, you wouldn't have made this post. keep losing my train of thoughts Write shorter entries. Write a list instead of paragraphs. One thought at a time. If something doesn't work, try a different thing. No excuses.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:04 PM
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Read this TLDR; red pill is mostly for normal, healthy men who are simply going down a path in life that they don't want to follow. Your problems are clearly severe, and will not be solved simply by "be better". Your two biggest issues are MS and Schizs. Sorry bro. I understand the need to take medication to deal with schizo. After all, nobody wants to be a fucking psycho. Do you also go to therapy regularly? I'm pretty sure the best way to deal with severe mental illnesses is not by taking meds…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 05:17 PM
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If you want to have sex with women without dating them, do night game (bars/clubs)
/r/askTRP05/01/17 05:01 PM
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You won't understand it until you've spend intimate time with a top tier woman.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 04:26 PM
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hangin out with people who dont value you as much Shouldn't do this. Don't hang out with people who don't value you, or improve your value to them. Up to you which one you want.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:35 PM
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It's pretty much impossible to discern the true meaning of a text message like that. Your best bet is to just take it literally and not overthink it. She texted you means she's interested. Ask her out. If she says no, she's not interested and you can drop her. Message her whenever you want.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:34 PM
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Had a coworker who met his now wife on a fantasy internet forum while he was living in Europe and she in the US. They now both live in the US and have a second kid on the way. Both 6/10 and are hardcore nerds. Sometimes life is weird and things work out. This situation is a rarity, but people like to be hopeful. You never really know what's gonna happen a lot of the time.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:18 PM
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wait until SHE clearly suggests hanging out She already made a move by texting you. This is how women usually make moves. Not directly as in "let's go out" but indirectly by saying something like "just finished all my stuff today". She is actively-passively telling you to make a move. Women will very very rarely clearly suggest hanging out unless you've already hung out together. Setup a meet. If she flakes again delete her number and move on.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:15 PM
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non western women aren't as opportunistic You must be joking. People from poorer places, such as countries where mail order brides are from, are EXTREMELY opportunistic. And they are fucking professionals at surviving and making money. Western girls are novices because it is not a life or death situation for them. When your life is a shitter, and you have no guarantee of government welfare or a paycheck, you have to be a cutthroat to survive.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 07:03 PM
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Here's a good 1st out of 4 part blog written by a guy who solo started a company. It's targeted for software developers but it's still a good outlook regardless. Also, read this (also from a guy who solo started a company)
/r/askTRP03/01/17 06:56 PM
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You really can't replace the satisfaction a good woman will give you in a relationship. It's impossible. Just like a mother/father relationship or a best friend relationship is unique, so is a high quality romantic one. most of my friends my age are enjoying healthy relationships This is the wrong reason to feel lonely though. You are comparing your life to that of your peers and are basing your happiness off theirs. Ultimately do what makes you happy. You can fill the loneliness void by focusin…
/r/askTRP03/01/17 06:53 PM
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to ghost most of the people because of their beta traits Nothing beta here. Also this isn't why you ghost a friend. You ghost them because they disrespect you. only using me to buy him some steam games This is the reason you're ghosting him. He's not your friend. Don't treat him as such.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 06:38 PM
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The best way is to literally remove yourself from the video game. As in, go outside. Get a job, make some friends, pick up a hobby (outside the computer room) etc. Put yourself into situations where you are physically unable to play and you will forget about them.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 08:49 PM
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I've seen this in a few female friends who are really cute but are just super duper nice and are kinda quirky. Men, particularly omegas, just swarm over them obsessively. It's really frustrating for them and it's really hard for them to do anything about it due to their character and the lack of social skills of the men. Some things: Set obvious boundaries. The second they make any kind of move, make sure they know it's not romantic. They ask you for coffee: tell them THIS IS NOT A DATE. Mention…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 04:32 PM
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Surely you're joking Mr Feynman - autobiography from a nobel prize winner in physics Brain Rules - how our brain works written by a molecular biologist in an easy to consume way Mindfullness in Plain English - how to practice mindfulness via meditation
/r/askTRP30/12/16 04:24 PM
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I'm 25 and have treated sleep as a redheaded stepchild that I neglect until necessary and I regret it so much. Sleep is the holy grail of your body's recovery. Your body requires high quality and good quantity of sleep if you want to function at your maximum capacity. Here are some thing I've been implementing to unfuck my sleep: Have a morning ritual. This is in order to have something to look forward to waking up every day so you do not put off sleep. Getting started properly is a big aspect o…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 04:12 PM
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Check out /r/personalfinance for much better answers than you'll find here. https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/4tfc76/eli18_personal_finance_tips_for_young_adults_us/ is a good thread to get started as an independent adult, but I'm sure there's enough in there where you can learn something for your situation as well.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:54 PM
2

Bling rage is a serious problem that will inhibit you from progressing in life. Lifting is not a solution. Look inward to try and understand why this is happening. Trying to solve via superficial means like lifting is no different than trying to solve via alcohol, drugs, women, or any other activity. Planting a tree in rotten soil will result in a dead tree. Your soil is rotten. Figure out the cause of rot and control it.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:48 PM
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If she wants to get into physical characteristics, women are the easiest creatures of the world to get back at. She calls you short? Squeeze her belly fat or her arm fat or wherever she has extra skin even if she has none. Or push her to her knees and show her who is short now. Remember not to be mean spirited about it, but to do it playfully. "Omg you're so short" "Lil shorty with a big fatty we're so cute together" Your response is defensive. Don't be defensive. She's just giving you shit. Giv…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:30 PM
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They're in high school. Shit don't matter. Tell him to have fun and do whatever he wants and not to second guess himself.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:27 PM
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For a girlfriend, here are some basic rules for compliments Everyone likes to be complimented, men included Do compliment when she does something you like Don't compliment just to say something when you have nothing else to say Do compliment when you are actually sincere about the compliment Don't compliment in excess - flattery breeds contempt (also this is pedestalization) Do compliment to make her feel good. Relationships should make both people involved feel good. Don't compliment to try and…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:16 PM
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Remember TRP is a movement that originated as a result of western social constructs. Straight up applying it to non-western cultures will often times, like you noticed, will fail. There are things that carry over. For instance, having muscles, looking sharp, being funny etc. However women of many other cultures simply will not understand the assholish behavior that the TRP preaches to deal with western women, because you don't need that behavior to deal with non-western women. I hope you are tal…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 10:04 PM
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Tuck it under your belt. Then work towards letting her fix it for you.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:13 PM
2

EE is advanced calculus and physics. You don't study for the basics because you don't like them (or are a lazy fuck) and therefore you won't like and study for EE. If you already don't care for the basics, you won't care for advanced stuff. It takes a certain mindset to be a good engineer, and not doing the work to learn the basics is not that mindset. Stick to business.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:12 PM
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What would happen? There's only one way to find out really. You know yourself but you also seem to have some understanding of how social interactions work. Why not experiment? Go to social gatherings where you know noone. Pick a rating of 1-10 on how "all out" you will go. Then, and this is important, be mindful of yourself and of how people react. So you shouldn't go to 10 at first because you won't be able to pay attention. Afterwards, write it down. Write down your rating, how you felt, how o…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:41 PM
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Sounds like you harbor a lot of resentment and want some kind of 'revenge' on the world by slaying the pussy. I guarantee you a high notch count won't make you feel better. Sounds like what you need to do is work on your confidence, and fucking women will certainly help, but don't let it consume you.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:37 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want, but remember cars are expensive. I bought a similar car to you with slightly less monthly payment and I thought it would be easy. What you don't consider are all the other payments of keeping the car afloat. Pretty much all of these are more expensive than a honda gas - need the premium oil - synthetic need to wash more often - why else have a nice car? minor body repairs are more expensive minor mechanical repairs are more expensive tires are more expensive more e…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:29 PM
1

people-they-interact-with (not gonna use the word friend) People you interact with on a regular basis are literally your friends. There can be different types of friends. An orbiter is a friend. A fuck buddy is a friend. A LTR is a friend. A guy you did drugs with one time in an alley is a friend. What you're asking is how do you make friends but for some reason avoiding that question. To answer your question, the easiest way to make friends is to spend more time interacting. Have a 30 second co…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:23 PM
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Why do you need to stay sharp at a party? Loosen up, have some fun. It's new years. It's time to celebrate, you're not running for a promotion here.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:18 PM
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Sometimes there's not much you can do to "make life better". On TRP, everyone likes to preach, 'take control of your life!'. A lot of times, even when you try your best, you can only move your trajectory a tiny bit. The only thing you can really do is to move your standard. Instead of being unhappy with your results and trying to be unrealistic with your expectation IN THE SCOPE OF YOUR OWN LIFE, practice being content with what you have and with what you can realistically achieve. Don't set you…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:16 PM
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EE in any respectable school is extremely difficult and you will not get very far without studying unless you can whisper to magnetic fields. There is no bullshitting when it comes to complex math/physics/engineering. You either can or can't do it. If you want to get the most bang for your buck without giving a shit, stick with business.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:10 PM
0

Going on dates with girls.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:07 PM
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Then it's a cultural thing. You either learn to master your culture or move to a place with a different one.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:06 PM
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Are you a monk or evangelical christian who cannot talk to women for some reason? If not, you are not holding frame, you're just failing to approach. Frame is held when she attempts to take control of the social interaction, not before the interaction even begins. There are certain exceptions of course, but for most of the time (girls you see on the street, at bars etc) you have one opportunity to go talk to them or you will most likely never see her again.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:04 PM
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Go see a therapist, this is outside the scope of TRP.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:15 PM
4

This sounds like a question a 12 year old asks. The fuck?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:00 PM
1

Don't bother responding until she proposes a solution herself.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:57 PM
1

Foreign for me too. After being in the mindset long enough, I realized at the root level it's quite toxic to your own psyche and a lot of the ideals pushed are psychopathic. It's a coping mechanism used by damaged people to not get hurt more. I now treat it like any other ideology, take what you like (game, self improvement, confidence) and throw away the garbage.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:46 PM
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My tactic is to go in and treat them exactly the way I did before I left Sounds like the best bet. Pretend nothing has changed. The only person feeling awkward here will be your ex. Feel free to invite or not invite your ex to group events. Up to you really. If you really don't give a fuck, then go for it.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:39 PM
1

I don't think reading TRP and related literature for an hour a day every day is the best use of time, but do what you think pushes you forward the most.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:37 PM
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LDR can work for some people. Though the few ones I know that worked out, when they meet up, they fuck like rabbits. Lack of this probably means she's checked out of the relationship. You really can't convey this to someone. Best thing you can do as a friend is go do fun shit together. Invite female friends to go with you guys to events, concerts, etc.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:34 PM
1

Sounds like you're pretty in tune with your own emotional deficiencies. If you're up to it, you can spend some time in finding a therapist you like to discuss these things with. They are professionals who can really help out with helping you get to the root cause of this within yourself. There are also a bunch of garbage ones that will try to give you anti depressants so your mileage may vary.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:11 PM
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Don't regret past relationships. You must think of them as valuable learning experiences. You grow so much as a person and learn so much about yourself by going through one. It's OK to go after a particular type of women you like. Ultimately you don't pedestalize women's traits, you pedestalize the women themselves. I can never have a relationship with a stupid woman. It's not pedestalizing, it's simply a standard for me.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:59 PM
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I have no one to turn to at the moment. This should be a priority fix. TRP is not your friend, nor is it a therapist. Binge reading it will not make your life better. i've struggled to keep working out.Gym isn't an option and i miss it. You don't need to go to a Gym to exercise. You can do yoga at home. You can run anywhere. You can do abs and pushups anywhere. Stay physically healthy. I'm ashamed to mention it to my mates. Sounds like you need better mates. I won't talk about all my problems wi…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:53 PM
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If you are seeking a long term partner to eventually be the mother of your children, attraction only goes so far. You can only listen to stupidity so many times before you get tired of it. Everyone likes different things. Just remember, intelligent women are still women. But you can actually carry interesting conversations with them.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:49 PM
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Could be plenty of reasons, like maybe she's too nervous to be alone with you. Or who knows. Either way, good learning experience. Like you said, practice being the star of the show. But not in a attention-whoring way. Don't pay for everyone. You make sure everyone has a good time and she will be happy to go out with you alone later. Sometimes it's a patience game.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:46 PM
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The best thing you can do is be a role model for them. Be the guy they want to be when they grow up. Be the man with muscles who is always telling jokes and stories and brings funny little gifts. Be the guy your cousins perk up just hearing about. Otherwise they will not really give a fuck about what you tell them.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:43 PM
1

Google "things to do in $MY_CITY". If you don't live in a bumhole, you should get some interesting events, concerts, shows etc that come up. If you don't have money, look for free public events, go to a park, or go people watch somewhere with a lot of people.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:41 PM
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I feel ya bro and I've felt the same way before, but these past few years have taught me a lot about the value of relationships and friendships. You just gotta find people that you actually want to be around. Hint: it takes work to find these people.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:11 PM
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Louder is not commanding. Go join a local Toastmasters group and learn to speak properly.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:08 PM
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You asked a girl for her number after she gave you a one word response and nodded. There is absolutely no interest from her in even talking to you. This is just a lack of social awareness. This is why I don't like monk mode, it leaves you with absolutely no social skills. Well, fuck! They are great and feminine but slavic girls are hardmode, they don't have ons culture and they need really masculine men. The fact that you thought this instead of "well she's not even talking to me" is really tell…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:03 PM
3

I didn't realize this was the Ask Cosmo Magazine subreddit.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:59 PM
1

If you really wanna go down the rabbit hole and just see what happens you can say "yea you are" or send her a link to the your shit don't stank song, but honestly don't waste your mental energy.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:58 PM
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For some reason that I've noticed, many people who do the party and drinking lifestyle do nothing but party and drink. While those things are fun, and like most things are just fine in moderation, taking them to excess fucks over many other aspects of your life. If you want to do the lifestyle, then do it. Nobody on the internet should be telling you how to live your life. Why do you care what a bunch of TRPers might think of you?
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:55 PM
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Lol do you have friends? When I was in college I would get together with my guy friends and eat several times a week and nothing else. This is what people do. Eating is a social activity for people.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:49 PM
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Do you really want to deal with this? She's not apologizing for being a cunt or saying how she'll make it up to you. She is stating facts and basically making you deal with it. This is absolving responsibility. She's so used to you orbiting she just expects you to solve this problem. Just don't respond, I'm sure she will follow up once she realizes you're not gonna solve her problems for her. If she doesn't follow up, you've lost nothing.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:46 PM
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Sounds like a cultural thing. Most non Western cultures have extreme supplication towards their elders and feels how you're describing. Either way, it's your mindset. I consider everyone on the same level as me. I don't remember the last time I called anyone 'mr/mrs'. Everyone is on first name basis to me. Maybe not a doctor since it's an official title but for all other aspects, bosses, girlfriend's parents, etc, they are all equal to me and will be treated as such. Note that this doesn't mean …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:41 PM
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I'm 25 and have been in your shoes multiple times. Ultimately what I've found is wanting women primarily for sex causes the exact thing you talk about. I've also found having an attractive woman at your side who you like and have a connection with can have huge impacts on your well being. The sex comes naturally. But you're graduating soon so it's pointless to look for deep connections now. I'd say come up with a plan, or do some prep work with your online dating profiles or whatever so once you…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:35 PM
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I think your mindset of being able to get fucking excited for the little things in life is amazing. To me, the point of life is to be happy and healthy. Finding happiness in as many things as you can is to be revered. Of course, your friends might be more reserved with their happiness, or may be more inward with it. Who knows really. Or they just find happiness in other things. Or they're secretly miserable. People are complicated. Be happy and enthusiastic about the things that make you happy, …
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:48 PM
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It's really changed the way I see things. I've been exposed to TRP for a while now, and I frequently catch myself noticing how it's affected the way I perceive things. That said, I think TRP is toxic if all you really want is a nice sweet girl to LTR and you'll have to take the shit you read with a grain of salt, but it works out well if you just wanna fuck a lot of women.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:43 PM
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Too little information to say. 4 numbers is not enough to judge anything. Get 100 numbers then we have meaningful data. Also take into consideration all the circumstances surrounding the numbers. Bar/nightclub? Will be absolute shit ratios most of the time. Go for the ONS. Day game? Text her that same day while you're fresh in her mind. How much time do you spend gaming them? Do you talk about random stuff for 5 min while being friendly and not actually building attraction? She won't respond. Yo…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:29 PM
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I'm also a developer. You're just making excuses. You also don't need to only talk about work with your coworkers. "What are you up to this weekend?" "I saw this movie, xx, seen it? it's sick" "Yo check out this new awesome JS framework" (lol)
/r/askTRP21/07/16 01:30 PM
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If anyone asks you if you're a student, tell them you're a grad student in some super specific technical field to always have plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:40 PM
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I work, go to the gym, read and sleep. This is why a lot of times I see guys with massive muscles in the gym with frumpy gfs. They spend all their time lifting weights and forget to learn to socialize. Do you remember how weak you were the first time you stepped into the gym? How you probably thought others who are literally three times bigger than you would judge? But you overcame it anyway? Do the same thing with social interactions. Becoming better at being social is EXACTLY THE SAME as going…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:33 PM
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Live the life you want and you will run into people doing the same. I guarantee you at some point you will run into someone you saw at the library at a party.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:28 PM
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I feel I'd be the bad ass I should have been if I lived in someplace like the states. Completely wrong. You will live your life the same way you are anywhere. I've done this and I know too many people who lived the same experience. If you are a recluse in your country, you will be a recluse in another. Here your excuse is language barrier, there your excuse will be something else. Sounds like language barrier is a big problem for you though. Fix it.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 04:24 PM
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Completely on point. Good to know there are some normal people in here.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 04:12 PM
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but it's so much more appealing and authentic if you can also pull the girl into your world rather than simple meeting and chatting on neutral territory (e.g. a generic bar), whether that's through action or something else is entirely dependent on whatever truly makes your world. Absolutely on point with this. I like the lowkey dates first because I have a powerful personality that has bitten me in the ass before and has put people off, so before the woman can commit to my world, I have to take …
/r/askTRP19/07/16 04:09 PM
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Yes, and I've realized that TRP is first and foremost a self-defense mechanism for damaged and hurt men to not get hurt anymore. That's why I tend to post here with mostly moderate views to keep normal guys from doing shit they don't really need to do. Do with it like any other ideology, take what's good (self-improvement, game, live your life to the max) and throw away the rest.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 04:01 PM
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But I think Im in too deep. I'm laughing at you, but not in a condescending way. Brother, you are 16. By the time you are 20, you will be a completely different person regardless of whether you put effort into it or not. unplugged my internet and threw out all my porn and videogames then I would literally have NOTHING to do. You are right, and usually extreme measures are not the correct way. My parents wont let me get a job or take gym. That sucks, but could also be because your parents don't t…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:57 PM
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I completely understand what you are saying, and agree 100% with the TRP comment. Obviously you gotta take her seriously sometimes when she says 'I miss you'. But I've found from personal experience, if you mix it up and just have fun, it really doesn't matter. For me, who likes to make jokes and just be lighthearted, it also lets my personality shine and I've found the girl's responses are really positive when I do this. She sends me a kissy face/good night emoji/'i miss you', I send her a poop…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:43 PM
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The nice guy sees that fun is merely being around a beautiful woman. Is not wrong. However, you are not merely being around a beautiful woman. You are engaging her emotions, in ways that most men and certainly women, do not. This is assuming that you are supplicating to her by doing drinks/dinner/coffee/non-active things. What you are actually doing is allowing you to tap into her emotions much easier because you have her full attention. You can react to what she says and how she acts. Read this…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:30 PM
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Get off your smart phone, reddit, porn, and the internet in general. Consuming so much empty content on the internet has conditioned your brain for zero effort dopamine gains. Every time you click a picture of a cat, boom dopamine. Every time you read a meme, boom dopamine. Every time you read a cool post on TRP, boom dopamine. Now, when you try to read a book, which can take 10-30 hours to do, your brain is like 'BUUUUUT I CAN GET SOOOO MUCH MORE FUN LOOKING AT MEMES'. You have probably been do…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:14 PM
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Obviously I'm overanalyzing here but: Do you want to be with a woman who can't take a joke? I sure as hell don't. I doubt she would have. This is just some lighthearted game. If she was really going to dump you over a text message, then she is basically the one gaming you. She is playing dread game on you. "Respond with neediness and supplication to my request for validation or I will dump you." Girl game acknowledged. If she was really attracted to you and wanted to seriously be with you, there…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:04 PM
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We give shit to single moms all the time. Single dads are not much different. Humans are complex social creatures that thrive when they have the presence of both a father and a mother figure in their childhoods. Sure it's possible, but chances are you are stifling your child's potential and possibly their mental health.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:00 PM
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Ok, then "They are not attracted enough to you" still applies.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:56 PM
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I don't think you understand game. Drinks in a 1 on 1 situation is the PERFECT opportunity to game a girl. It is much easier to game a girl when you have her full attention and you are sitting next to each other than when you are focusing on another activity that she is paying attention to. Remember you want the girl to fall for YOU and NOT whatever it is you guys are doing. You want her to feel pressured. You want her to step up her game and impress you with her dazzling ability to be an entert…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:52 PM
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Here is a decent list of canned responses, though some are meant to be in person/over the phone. A few work, but the main message is to have fun with it. her: " I miss you so much" you: " I have a boner right now" What she really wants is attention from you. And you give it to her. But you don't do it in a pussy way; you have fun with it and both of you profit.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:46 PM
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We must call Samus to deal with this mother brain menace.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:05 PM
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Date scheduled = you just need to not fuck up somehow = less texting
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:03 PM
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They are not attracted enough to you. Online dating is shitty for men. The top 10% of guys will get 90% of the girls. The other 90% will fight for the remains. Your choices are to settle for the shit tier of women (don't do this...), seriously improve your pictures to make yourself look like a 8/10 or 9/10, or drop online game and do day/night game.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:00 PM
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Drinks are perfectly fine. If you are so boring that you can't hold a girl's attention 1 on 1 without other things going on you need to work on your game.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:58 PM
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You need therapy not TRP bro.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:54 PM
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This is a question for /r/fitness not asktrp
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:47 PM
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No most people are not trying to dominate you. Your own paranoia is causing you to feel this way. I don't fucking trust anyone. I feel I gotta watch my back all the time. I feel I'm on my own I don't know what kind of shit you've been through to make you feel that way, but this is not normal. I'm guessing you went through some intense betrayals through your young life, or just never really socialized properly. You can not develop meaningful relationships with anyone with this mindset. Whatever i…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:44 PM
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Going cold turkey on sex for 90 days by itself won't do shit except make you hornier. It sounds like I can imagine that if I was single this would hopefully mean that I would stop pursuing women simply as a conquest (or at all) and focus on the right things with the right people. You are hoping things will just get better. They won't. You will have to make active changes in your mindset and your habits. until I eventually LTR someone and it usually ends up being the wrong person Why are they the…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:38 PM
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Check out this forum. Great for game.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:34 PM
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I think you are over dramatizing things. There were and will always be sluts. There were and will always be good wholesome women. There were and will always be chads (who are shit fathers and tend to have tons of kids they don't raise and then perpetuate more chads). There were and will always be men who set the course of the world (Zuckerberg, Musk etc). There were and will always be normal men and women who just want to be happy. Find those people and bring them into your life.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:32 PM
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What's your goal? Have sex with her every once in while? Be more distant. You want an LTR? It's ok to show a good amount of affection. It's how you do it that determines thirst. Saying "You make me happy" when she's in your arms is great. Texting "I miss you so much" when you haven't seen her for 2 days is not.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:27 PM
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No that's fucking terrible advice. You are in an LTR for 4 years. You want to keep it going while being more of a man and less of a boy. You did nothing wrong based on your write up. Yea you had to wait 25 min and that's fucking annoying but you knew she was working 14 hour shifts back to back. If you didn't know that's your own fault. If I was working these hours I would've never agreed to go out at all. You're probably a young guy. Your focus should be on education, health, fitness, getting la…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 08:54 PM
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Terrible terrible line. Don't talk about a girl's mom when you are about to bang her.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 08:45 PM
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Agreed TRP is a terrible place when it comes to realistic LTR advice.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 08:43 PM
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Take everything you read on the internet with a grain of salt. Especially ideologies that tell you how to live your life. TRP teaches you a few good things, and a lot of garbage, just like any other ideology out there. Take what's good for you and throw the rest away.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:53 PM
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You right, but one more 'Hey' 'Let's meet up tmr' in a week won't hurt. At worst she says no and you delete her number.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:51 PM
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Depends. You know the situation better than any of us. Being friendly != flirty. If you don't like it, tell her to stop. If she doesn't stop, dump her. She can't read your mind though and we on the internet can't really understand your situation without a lot more details. Just remember, part of TRP and game is 'flirting' with waitresses, grocery clerks etc while you're with your LTR. Flirting not in the sense of touching their arms, but making jokes, being friendly etc. She's simply doing the s…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:48 PM
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Narcissism is the perfect self-defense mechanism for insecurity. In general, to counteract something we, as humans, tend to do the exact opposite.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:42 PM
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Just say "ok cool" and hit her up again in a week. Patience is key sometimes.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:27 PM
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Sounds like if you're hanging out with her and 1 of your guy friends, and you and your friend are having a discussion, she is bored and just wants to be part of the convo and does it the only way she knows how. Either don't invite her when you want to have deep discussions or invite other girls so she can keep herself entertained without bothering you.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:26 PM
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For players, picking up women is a hobby.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:22 PM
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If you are anything like how you type, I wouldn't want to be friends with you.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:10 PM
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Grab ice cream. Sit next to each other. Go play bowling. Lots of opportunities to touch each other. Go to the park and sit on a bench next to each other. Invite her over for a movie. etc etc etc You are not coming back from anything. She's clearly into you. You're fine. Your relationship with her is not over because you didn't escalate on the first date.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:03 PM
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Why do you care? The past is the past. Stop living about what happened before and live for what's happening today and what's going to happen tomorrow.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:47 PM
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You don't have to be a pick up artist to cold approach. Just don't use the same tried and true tricks that PUA teaches you and be a normal fucking human and learn some game basics without the PUA tricks behind it. I think that's my biggest gripe with PUA is that you learn to spam approach and get girls numbers, but you don't really understand why a woman is actually attracted to you. At least most students don't. Also, from the article, Two students two days in a row approached Nicole and wouldn…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:42 PM
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Your mindset is bad. You are giving up before you even started. Your post reeks of defeatism. I have tried researching ways to lose weight and be fit but all I find is 6 things you should be doing or 10 things you should be doing. What? Did you google "how to be fit?", click the top link, not read it, and gave up and posted here? The sidebar has tons of info. Other subreddit (/r/fitness) has tons of info. You are asking us to do everything for you. We are not your parents. If you want to improve…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:36 PM
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The main reason I work out and eat healthy and dress well is because there is no better feeling than looking at yourself in the mirror and being able to say "fuck you are a sexy beast". Sure it also feels good when you are walking with a woman who is holding your arm and she is squeezing your bicep. In the end, especially if you want a meaningful relationship and not just bang club sluts forever, you will have to do things for your partner. But for now, be selfish. The better you are, the better…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 07:29 PM
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It's fucking hard. You will be exhausted. You must sleep and eat very well. Do 5/3/1. Google "5/3/1 bbj", there was a post I found that basically said to cut out all of the supplementary exercises in 5/3/1 and just stick to the main lifts. Start out 2 times a week (assuming you train 2-4 times a wk) and go to 3 times if you have leftover energy. Also search "strengh training" on /r/bjj
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:51 PM
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If a woman wants to see you, she will make time to see you. Period. Next her.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:43 PM
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I don't believe that most redditors post what works for them because I don't believe that they actually do what they say they did. In other words I think many TRP posters do not in any way shape or form live the lives they claim to be living.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:38 PM
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Power posture. Joke/tease. Drink straight whiskey. Don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:36 PM
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Just remember your end goal. It is NOT TO MEET WOMEN. NO. The kind of women most people attract without putting effort into themselves are not the women you really want. YOUR GOAL IS TO MAKE YOUR LIFE FUCKING AWESOME. JUST DO IT. Women will come into the picture slowly over time as you do so.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:34 PM
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I keep all that shit. These are parts of my memory and of my life and have contributed to the person I am today. Don't bust them open if you're in a serious LTR and especially not if you're going through a rough patch.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:32 PM
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Communicate your boundaries with her and stick to your word when you say you will do something. If you respect yourself and it shows (strong inner game), the women who are attracted to you should respect you (dump them if they don't). Women who respect you and are into you will not want to step on your toes for risk of alienating you. Now, they may do so accidentally and this is where you firmly tell them not to do it again. If they do it again, there must be consequences. Shit testing is when t…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:26 PM
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/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:19 PM
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Body language + some combinations of google translate. Unless you are an experienced player or are extremely attractive this just won't happen. Learn the language. What's their reaction if they can speak english? Do they get weirded out or are they accepting? Try something less direct "I'm looking for a coffee shop... visiting from blahblah..." and see what works better Don't do direct openers for this. Do something indirect like in 3 and see how they react and if they show any interest in you, …
/r/askTRP11/07/16 01:14 PM
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You are human. You are man. You are in control. Not your dick or your hormones. Learn some self control. Or just jerk off once a week if you haven't had sex to quell the desire a bit.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 07:04 PM
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Sure if they're used to you doing these things for them and all of a sudden you stopped, they're not gonna like it. If you want them to get over it faster, make jokes about it. Instead of just pointing to the trash can, say "What, princess can't make the journey herself?" with a smirk
/r/askTRP10/07/16 07:03 PM
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Say just enough to answer the question minimally, make a joke, and deflect back to them. Q: "What did you study?" A: "Math. You could say i'm a genius. And you? A genius as well?" Them: "Nono I studied english" You: "hohoho I bet you can do/are doing XYZ with that..." Them: "Well actually i'm..." Answer their question and immediately just bring the convo back to them.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:24 PM
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I know exactly how you feel. Self discovery is a a lifelong journey that is not magically started and at some point stopped - 'AHA, I know who I am'. We are constantly changing and so is the environment around us. Who you are at any given time is the circumstance of your current environment and the people you surround yourself with. Your job is to just slow down, look around, and see what that circumstance looks like and if you like it. You say you like drunk you more. Why? Are you more outgoing…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:20 PM
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I will tell this to everyone questioning about game. Roosh gets flak on TRP but the game section on his forum is an excellent resource on game (don't recommend his books though).
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:12 PM
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FYI "not offering enough security/comfort/being too hard" is not being too alpha. It's just being a shitty partner in a relationship. An alpha is not a man who completely disregards peoples feelings and needs. That's just being an asshole. Ltr of 2 years despite spinning plates on the side That's not spinning plates, that's just cheating bro. An alpha male is not a man who follows TRP principles down to the wire.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:10 PM
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Just pretend it never happened and interact with her like you would with a casual girl acquaintance.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:05 PM
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I don't suggest using an escort, it will not solve your root problem. Life rewards patience and perseverance. You say you are improving, the sex will come. Who cares if you live far away? Invite her over anyway. Watch a movie in your room. If your roomates are weird and you don't want girls coming over, screen for girls who live alone or in the city. Tell her about your awesome cooking skills and invite yourself over to cook dinner. From there, just escalate. People here say women lose interest …
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:02 PM
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It takes time. You were addicted to the chemicals your body releases when you are with her(dopamine etc). It is no different from cigarettes or other addictive substances. Withdrawal will take time, it's just that doing other things makes the withdrawal less noticeable.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 07:58 PM
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Channeling desperation is an extremely powerful motivation for humans regardless of today. How do you think athletes have the motivation for pushing their bodies to their physical limits? Desperation to win. How do scientists rack their brains for hours upon hours in their lab? Desperate to cure cancer. Why do men and women push themselves to look better and be more attractive to the other gender? Desperate for companionship, comfort and sex.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 07:56 PM
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You right, you right, but to meet that better woman he still has to go meet tons of women first :)
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:41 PM
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That's life brother. There are tons women out there who want to do the same, without lying about themselves to raise their SMV. You'll do just fine.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:39 PM
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Deep seeded issues that involve parents can grow into trees of hatred that will affect your life in many ways, mostly negative (maybe the gambling's root issue...). You must somehow tackle this, but since you tried and are unable, I'd recommend seeing a therapist. TRP is not in any way a solution here.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:34 PM
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Ok I read your short post. Sure fuck her if you want. However, She was caught being distrustful twice (trying to hide something she thought was bad and waiting to tell me something she thought was bad) and caught lying once (about installing and deleting the tumblr app, so dumb) Treat her as a last resort option. Do not prioritize her over anything else in your life. She has proved to be a shitty person. Don't degrade yourself. Can I still use her for food, clothes, money ? I wouldn't. See her a…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:28 PM
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I'm not going to read this post, but based on the fact that you wrote a fucking wall of text about one girl you are already waaaaay overthinking it. Bang her if you want to. Don't bang her if you don't want to. Either way go out and meet more women and don't let this chick fuck with your mind so much to go and write a wall of text.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:53 PM
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The answer to the 2nd question should be "Yes". There is no better way to get over a woman than by meeting other women.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:48 PM
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Now.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:46 PM
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Your mistake is thinking that humans operate on efficiency and logic. It also makes no logical sense to put people in jail for weed, reward bankers who rob the world of trillions of dollars with bailouts, to love your children who commit crimes, drink and drive, have unprotected sex with random strangers etc etc etc. That's life.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:44 PM
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just boring entitled meatbags Sure a lot of women are like this. Just as many men are like this. You are acting like this. I've quit porn, junk food, video games, I got a job, I lift, I cook, I pay attention to what I wear, and none of it is getting me laid! It seems as though you forgot the most important thing, actually talking to fucking women. Do you think because all of a sudden you look nice women will go throw themselves at you?? That's not how the world works. You are not entitled to sex…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:34 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want as long as it doesn't hurt you or others.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:02 PM
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By far the best way to learn about humans is to interact with them, listen to what they say, and pay attention to what they do. Reading books and internet forums is fun and interesting, but there is absolutely no replacement for going out there and seeing for yourself.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:00 PM
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Interesting conclusions about women. Considering you're a virgin, I doubt you've experienced any of those firsthand. Did you learn all that from reading comments on TRP from people like you? Stop looking for women on /r/SRS and look around, you'll find millions of pleasant, sexy, and nurturing women. Did you have a terrible mother/sisters? You have so many issues, yet for some reason you are blaming the women of the world for them!!
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:59 PM
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How old are you? If you're in your early 20s, this is the easy shitty way out. You live in NYC. NYC is one of the BEST cities in the USA to get laid. Manhattan has a 60-40 female to male ratio and 10% of the dudes are gay. A hooker will not, in any way shape or form, help you. This is not the TRP solution. This is the "I'm giving up on myself" blue pill solution.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 04:01 PM
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This is called game. There are infinite resources out there on the internet for this.this forum is great for game. (I know roosh gets a lot of flak on TRP but honestly the game section of his forum is one of the best resources out there for this)
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:56 PM
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No. If you send provider vibes with glasses, you will send provider vibes in a suit. YOU send the vibes, not the things you wear.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:51 PM
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A better bet is for you to meet people in fields than interest you, like your hobbies, sports, career etc and find people who are successful and interesting, and ask them to be your mentor. TRP is cool and all, but it should never be the primary focus of your life.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:49 PM
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Brother, nobody plays starts playing the guitar without first sucking at it. Same with social situations. You will be bad until you learn to be good. If you're afraid of saying stupid shit and getting judged for it. Ask people questions about themselves, smile and listen. People like to talk about themselves. Read "How to win friends and influence people". It is a timeless classic on how to get people to like you.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:48 PM
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Doesn't matter what she says. Just don't do it. "A fucking man" will play the game as necessary, not succumb to his impulses and say stupid shit.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:44 PM
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I've read the sidebar, read at least 30 posts Great now get off the internet. Go do shit. You keep remembering her because you are bored and have nothing else to do. I guarantee you will not even remember about her if you make yourself so busy that you don't have to time to think about her. More of I started going out more and I'm starting at the gym and more making new friends, both men and women. Getting over an emotionally invested relationships is an aspect of being human. Time and other act…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 09:25 PM
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Her asking you if you're single implies she senses sexual desperation from you.. Don't talk about sex over text with a woman before you've had sex with her. I know you want to make innuendos or try to keep convo sexual, but save it for when you actually meet her. You have not met her yet. There is no frame. This is just bad text game.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 09:15 PM
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Life is a journey and is about patience and perseverance. You are pedestalizing sex as an end all be all experience. There is so much you can gain on your journey to get laid: self improvement, better friends, amazing women etc. Don't be afraid of intimacy. You will never learn to overcome oneitis any other way than facing it head on. Avoiding intimacy because of "risks of catching oneitis" is like avoiding sex because of the risk of STDs. Or avoiding starting a business because risk of financia…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 09:13 PM
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Being a sociopath is NOT what you are looking for. Sociopathy is a disease, an inability to feel emotion. An inability to truly experience what being a human feels like. This is like saying you want to become an alcoholic so you don't remember your problems instead of dealing with them up front. What you are looking to do is CONTROL your emotions, UNDERSTAND what you are feeling. You must learn to recognize these emotions within yourself first and foremost in order to master them. A book I recom…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 09:02 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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