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What does it mean when you get multiple IOIs from a chick but she keeps mentioning her bf?

ravenhiss

January 11, 2017
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Title What does it mean when you get multiple IOIs from a chick but she keeps mentioning her bf?
Author

ravenhiss

Upvotes 1
Comments 7
Date January 11, 2017 9:24 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5nexua/what_does_it_mean_when_you_get_multiple_iois_from/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/what-does-it-mean-when-you-get-multiple-iois-from.80631
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Comments

[–]RedditAdminsSuck_882 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Need more context than this.

[–]I_Crepe_Bitches 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Typically it's a shit test. She is basically saying "I'm attracted to you; don't make a move because I'm weak and don't trust myself."

At that point it's your choice - if you want to go for it anyways just disregard completely and continue on. If you're not into fucking chicks with boyfriends then let it go. Saves yourself time too.

[–]blue_dover2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If she is saying that her bf and the girl are going through a rough patch - or how they have been fighting more often or gotten more distant from each other => This is womanese for her telling you "Hey dummy, my relationship is about to end - if you want me - make a move now"

If she is just casually mentioning her bf and the things she does or whatever - she wants plausible deniability in case you make a move - it was your fault - she is innocent

[–]banllama0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd say you are misinterpreting the IOIs. She is probably just being nice to you.

[–]ravenhiss0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If you start doubting IOIs then your game is over. Is that how you play your game?

[–]banllama0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You could always be wrong in interpreting the IOIs is what I'm saying. Either way, you gave 0 details and it's one girl. You cannot gain anything meaningful from this. Go talk to 100 girls and if all 100 give you IOIs (from your perspective) but nothing happens, then you have a problem.

[–]ravenhiss0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I gave 0 details so that it would be generic and helpful to other guys in this situation. Too specific equal oneitis.

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