First of all I'd like to let you know that I'm not a blue piller, and I think that there are many useful aspects of the Red Pill philosophy, so this post isn't an insult or to shame anyone but a real question.

TRP focusses around not viewing girls as special, not being a beta, game, etc. and I agree with all of this, but the extent that I see a lot of people here take it to is a little too far. It seems like a lot of people on TRP are trying to become emotionally detached to women so that when they are rejected or betrayed by a woman they won't feel bad. They use their emotional detachment as a defense mechanism, whereas I think someone who was truly masculine wouldn't become emotionally detached but would be able to handle their negative emotions. A lot of red pillers seem bitter and angry at women, and even if this detachment helps you get girls is it really worth it? With this mentality, aren't women kind of ruined? I think a mixture of red pill with a little bit of normal is the best way of doing things, but a lot of people on here go too far. What do you think about this?

edit: Thanks for the gold