Is there something wrong with me?

ThirstyWraith · 2019-09-03T15:16:01+00:00

Bro you created 21 threads about this. Your biggest issue is your head

0io- · 2019-09-03T15:25:09+00:00

Stop drinking. Get some viagra. Quit over-thinking stuff. You have anxiety. Lift weights, swim, and read up on self-help tips to reduce anxiety.

BusterVadge · 2019-09-03T15:44:56+00:00

What are your T-Levels. Post them or GTFO.

BurnoTaurus · 2019-09-03T15:26:26+00:00

Its written plain as day, encoded into the very choice of words and sentence structure you are using.

You even said "at first I thought it was just anxiety" then after the second time its "now im being haunted by thoughts"

dude, this is how the mind works. its actually really straightforward what is happening to you. You might not have been sure if you were up to fucking this super hotty, she might have intimidated you a bit, you might have been kinda drunk and got whiskey dick, you might have had a shitty day and some nagging thought kept you out of the moment.

The point is, that first incident snowballed because you're beating yourself up over it.

Why would you stop thinking it was anxiety, a psychological affliction, when more psychological phenomena began to occur? the "haunting thoughts and feelings" are the insistant thoughts of what could have been. You wish things turned out better with that girl, but now instead of being able to admit to yourself what happened and just accept that you had an off night, you've worked yourself into this ED situation.

When you're about to fuck a girl, or even approaching, do you suddenly remember the incident and then it throws you off your game? No shit, its hard to be se y and confident when youre actively reliving the memory of something that you feel ashamed of

wawakaka · 2019-09-03T16:07:11+00:00

You are scaring yourself to the point of impotence

duck_tales · 2019-09-03T16:25:59+00:00

stop smoking weed and drinking and all that shit. how much are you squatting and dead lifting?

[deleted] · 2019-09-03T16:12:42+00:00

Even if you were gay or bi, so what? Why get depressed. I am a bi man and I believe it is better than straight since I fuck girls and guys. If someone tries to joke when they see me with a guy I just say “ yes I fuck anything and you are next” then you would be laughing when you see their reaction(they usually get scared/shy and not joke anymore). Just take it ez and don’t try to fuck without attraction just to confirm your sexuality.

throaway69404 · 2019-09-03T18:34:37+00:00

Everything is wrong with you

umizumiz · 2019-09-04T03:12:46+00:00

I acquired performance anxiety for many years after attempting to piss off the back of a crowded boat full of drunk people. I couldn't go for the life of me, everybody was talking to me, it was like the 3rd time that day I didn't understand why I had piss anxiety all of a sudden.

Anyway, it went away. After a few years. I just quit thinking about it everytime I pissed. Turns out it was all in my head and the only time my dick wouldn't work was when I was thinking about my dick not working.

You can get a boner, bro. Relax

Musicgoon · 2019-09-04T04:07:45+00:00

Stop fucking drinking. Your hamster is out of control.

Lift heavy shit to boost your testosterone and get some good sleep.

innerissuesorjail · 2019-09-03T15:53:52+00:00

it means you are gay

Title	Is there something wrong with me?
Author	chibuckets
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	September 3, 2019 3:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cz62hn/is_there_something_wrong_with_me/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/is-there-something-wrong-with-me.251547 https://theredarchive.com/post/251547

Comments