I have a 9-5 but I have a side-hustle I work on almost every night but I have a 4 month LTR who I schedule a day or two with each week.

She has been nagging to get me to give her more time and saying "You should work on your stuff next to me".

It's a distraction so I really need to keep my schedule firm but a part of me thinks I could maybe bend a little and let her work next to me IF SHE HAS SOMETHING TO WORK ON TOO (like her own side hustle).

I'm afraid to even bend though because I've been so firm on it and she tests me often about it. Give her an inch and she could take a mile.

My RP knowledge makes me think this is one of those scenarios where I should just stay firm because she doesn't know it would be bad for the relationship/she'll just lose attraction.

Other RP LTR info makes me think it could be an opportunity to let her be part of my journey.

Anyone ever tried getting there girl to hustle with them on projects (honestly mostly boring laptop research/writing blog posts at this point)?