So I've been seeing this girl for a few months. It was kinda getting to the point of a LTR and it was working out well. She kept brining up "what are we?" And I would just deflect or make light of it.

One day, after she brought it up she posted all these pics out with her friends and these dudes. It had to be a jealousy play, or she found something she likes more. I think it was kind of a big shit test. I texted her and she didn't respond till a day later. And it was all "sorry babe, I've been so busy with work, bla bla bla" I said, it's cool I've been busy too. I kept it light and didn't acknowledge the test at all.

We had plans to see each other this weekend but we haven't talked about it in a while so this morning I asked her "Are we still getting together this weekend?" And she said "lemme check." She's a local-low-level celebrity, so she goes out a lot. Last time she did the same thing; "Lemme check!" I did't response for a while, till finally, "Yeah that works!"

So this time I asked her this morning and she still hasn't responded. I think she was expecting me to freak out. I thought about saying 'forget it.' (this is too much work) But I wanna wait and see what she does. She's been really into me and I think she feels unsure about what we are and is testing to see what I put up with and or get me to commit. I know you'll say, run bro! She's trash! But honestly I haven't really set any boundaries because it wasn't serious till a few weeks ago.

Part of me wants to next her, but part of me wants to see what she does. I like her, but I have other plates I could see so I'm not really sweating it. I'm relatively new here so some advice would be awesome.