Met with this girl at the club, spent the night together and asked her out the following week and she accepted. She also invited me to an EDM concert. Her wording was close to this, there is this concert, but I'm down to see you. So, I said I d like to see the concert as well. This morning she says, "We could also do whatever you want Saturday, your choice :)" So, in this case, I figured now I probably don't want to go to the concert cuz it starts at 11 and it will be really late and I will be tired when we get home. I would instead like to spend the night with her in the bed.

I'm keen to change my mind and suggest something else, like go to a bar chill and head back home. I was wondering if she wants me to make some other plan since out of nowhere she texted me in the morning saying we can do something else too. Or should I just stick with what I said last night and go to the concert.

Ok, ok I know I do whatever I want and I should suggest what is in my mind. I am not here to please her, instead, I want to have my own fun and she can be a part of it.

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Sorry if this is not even in the right format. Just writing and asking what you guys think about the situation helps me to think about it.