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[–]RedPillN00B2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you're overthinking it. You played it fine by not caring. Move on
[–]50pluspiller2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like she wants to break it off with you.
DAmn, sorry dude.
[–]ItsTheHomeWrecker1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]FrameWalker1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please explain how being exclusive is not equivalent to bf/gf?
[–]verily_rp0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I feel pretty confident in the relationship at this point because she does not hold power over me.
But she does have power over you. In fact, you say it in the previous sentence.
we have agreed to remain exclusive
When girls say "we", they really mean "you".
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[–]verily_rp0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you think it's natural for a human male to be exclusive? It is in our biological imperative to impregnate as many fertile, young, healthy females as possible. It is a female's biological imperative to be impregnated and protected by the strongest, highest value male.
Guess who submitted to who's frame?
Women are very good at manipulating unsuspecting men. They have this ability to trick a guy into believing what's good for them (as an individual) is good for the guy and the relationship, even if it's incredibly selfish, to the point of sabotage for the benefit of only her. But what she's selling doesn't necessarily conform to what you're buying. So she tricks you or slowly molds you to change your standards and expectations. Do you understand?
Before you reply, I'm going to remind you. You have oneitis. It will hurt like a bitch when she will replace you. And believe me, she will. She's not yours; it's simply your turn. This is your red pill. Take it or leave it.
[–]verily_rp0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I must ask, how do you view monogamous relationships? Do you choose not to partake given you ultra red pilled view of the world?
I choose to take advantage of whatever benefits me the most, plain and simple. This means having my own interests put first, which is mostly self improvement, abundance mentality, and a general IDGAF attitude.
A monogamous relationship doesn't really benefit me. If a girl I was going out with wears skimpy clothing and parties a lot, what do you think that does for me? Of course, I wouldn't even consider her a LTR material to begin with, I'd just plate her instead while looking for more qualified girls on the side. I'm not going to close my options at any point, ever. Problem arise when a girl gets too comfortable - that's why a certain level of dread is necessary for a healthy relationship. And I'm especially not going to change my behavior, demeanor, and preferences to suit her needs, especially if those are what got me the girl to begin with (no matter how much she protests otherwise).
See Patrice O'Neal's view on the subject: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVv89oHWqXI&feature=youtu.be&t=21m40s
Edit: As for answering your OP question, she's gauging your reaction rather than an actual shit test. She was probably surprised with how unfazed you were with her going to the party and wants to know how far she can push the bar before you draw the line. If you let her go too far, she'll think you're a pushover. If you don't let her do much, she'll think you're insecure. Remember that she's always looking for a way to shed you in a faltered light. You need to maintain frame. Get clever, get smarter than her, and treat her like a child. Because in the end, she is, and this game she's playing is evidence of that.
[–]SexySmexxy0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty dicky to be so nonchalant when she's telling you what she wore especially after you just called her cute. You should've asked for a picture of her in it or whatever, sexualised an easy situation. Instead you went semi dick mode for no apparent reason. "You're cool" is a wierd response. It was a wierd response to your wierd response.
No need to randomly be a dick to What's basically your bf/gf. That's how the finds her way to other dick.
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