I'm talking to a girl and there are a few red flags as to why I shouldn't move her to anything past a plate. Aside from those other things that will be revealed I'd like to focus specifically in the Alpha Widow flags. Here is the info:

  1. she's very pretty and her last few boyfriends ranged from 6'3-6'6. She's also tall herself.

  2. she's dates multiple celebrities and professional athletes. Her last boyfreind however was the least SMV in my opinion. She dates him from 25-28. Now she's about to turn 29 in 2 months. I've been talking to her for roughly a year.

  3. she's a freak in bed.

  4. we fuck and she'd order pizza for us. One time right after we fucked and we're eating the food she ordered in bed she said "you're so lucky" (in regard to what just happened is happening)

  5. when we first started fucking, maybe the 3rd time she said "Why do you always act like you're much better than me at sex" I have no idea what prompted that and it makes no sense to because I didn't think I was acting a certain way

  6. I think she's obsessed her most recent boyfriend before we started talking. She asked me to commit 2 months after we started talking and when I said no she almost burst out in tears, as if it brought back flashbacks. She then said that her last boyfriend wouldn't commit fully either. Which means he wasn't really her boyfriend and technically she's not an alpha widow, but she might think she was?

7)SMV wise her last "boyfreind" was higher than me because of his height only as far as I can tell. He may have had an alpha personality too, idk. He played college basketball at an NCAA school but didn't go pro to the NBA. I make more than double his salary, but that's not obvious to plates or anyone necessarily. Facial aethstics were similar, but him being 6'4 is the huge differentiator for his advantage. This girl is 6'0 so she values taller guys even more than the normal girl. I'm only 5'11.

  1. she keeps saying her last boyfriend was an asshole and keeps talking shit about him, which we all know means she wants him

  2. she's mentioned a few times before how xyz celebrity is hot because he's tall and how xyz is not because he's short. She's mentioned Zac Efron being not hot because he's short

  3. i won't get into how I know this but she's ignored date requests from objectively better looking, taller, successful guy (like a doctor) for shorter, uglier guys that are TRYING to become professional athletes. By trying i mean in development leagues, etc...