Hi! I began reading game and PUA stuff some years ago and after some struggle I landed a short relationship with a girl. Things didn't go well and after we broke up I found the red pill... well that was 8 months ago and I definitely have changed for the better in how I view relationships, socially and myself as a man. But I still look back and I am sad because I spent all that time being nice with women and that girl, and sad that I didn't kind of get it from the start. I'm kind of disappointed with my former behaviour. Maybe also sad that it didn't work out with her because I was so much in the blue so to say.

How do I work to overcome this?