Hi guys, Ive been around for a while, lurked for around 2 years but only started really working and improving myself for around a year.

Il jump straight into it:

I met a girl around 3 years ago, lets call her L, and i fucked up bad, i was a little bitch and ofcourse i ended up orbiting..for 2 years, i tried forgetting about her, and i thought i had

But it was far from over, atleast for me...

I got placed into the best friend category, and i came to accept it, and as i said i tried not giving a fuck and i dated other chicks Nothing helped, to a point where i was really not working well, it affected my life far more than i wanted it to.

She started dating another dude who ended up cheating on him, wich she told me nearly everything about ( yea it was that bad, but i didnt mind, i tought i didnt care about her, and i laughed cus i knew it was comming) But month after month i ended up comming back to that place where L was on my mind 24/7

This was around the time i started looking through red pill stuff with intent to change

So i cut contact

100%, i deleted numbers, i deleted texts, i didnt talk to her, i forgot she existed, that happened about 8 or 9 months ago

I needed to get her out of my system, and I did, during summer i had so much fun, i fooled around alot and i moved to a different college (different reason) wich is around 3h away from her, and ive been working on myself

About a month ago she sent me a song via youtube, i sent her another and we chatted for a bit, about everything and nothing. I stopped responding, i had to study, the day after she sent me a friend request

Since then she has been liking some of my stuff and such, and i do give her an occasional like n shit

Yesterday i dreamt about her, and truth is, she matters to me, after all this time, i have alot of nice memories and some life changing stuff happened her around me, and im trying to fight my desire to speak to her again

She liked some foto yesterday from my face, and today she commented on the same foto, 18h apart

Is this something? Should i talk to her? Am i just preserving the idea of someone? im unsure of what to do