Is tinder harder?

thrway1312 · 2016-05-14T15:10:49+00:00

Game's still the same but the aesthetic has changed. Try searching TRP for tinder guides, most common theme is good pictures, brief bio (job if prestigious, goals/dreams if not; I use a funny fake fact too).

I live in a big university city and get anywhere from 2-10 matches each time I'm swiping but I'll be honest, the amount of girls using it for validation has gone up dramatically.

Merica93 · 2016-05-14T12:40:44+00:00

Try bumble. Assuming real life is not an option for whatever reason.

trpjnf · 2016-05-14T16:22:47+00:00

I'm a pretty avid user of tinder/bumble. It's really all about ego/validation now. I'm lucky I'm in a big college town, so I still get a few dates/numbers out of it. But if I were anywhere else, I would have deleted it all by now.

chinotsosquare · 2016-05-14T16:39:37+00:00

Its about the pictures get professional pics honestly I went from 1/100 match rate to 10/100 thats 10 times

ddiogenesofsinope · 2016-05-14T20:53:54+00:00

In my experience I get a lot of matches. But the girl has decided well before she even swipes if she'll bang you or not. If I have to try too hard, she isn't banging and I'm just validation.

[deleted] · 2016-05-14T21:23:53+00:00

I experienced the same thing as you a while back. When I first began using it, I would get matches with some decent-looking gals, now if I'm lucky I'll get an overweight chick that believes "its whats on the inside that counts."

I personally believe that 95% of all women are using it for the sole purpose of validation.

Surfincloud9 · 2016-05-14T21:49:56+00:00

I remember Tinder when it first came out. Those were the days, having bitches drive from an hour away to fuck. Now, most of the girls in my region are on there for validation but a decent bit want to fuck. They just want you to take them out on one date and then you can just see in their eyes if they want to fuck or not. Some want to go right away. I have 300 matches in a smaller scale of a city and out of those, I fucked 10. Couple puerto ricans, two asians, the rest white girls. This is within the past 3 months. Almost got a chick pregnant. I don't know if the condom is too small but it always breaks. Maybe twice it hasn't broken. Glad I don't have an std.

I swipe right for everyone so I don't waste my time and usually will send 5 to 10 messages back and forth and then set up a date. Don't chit chat.

cazzah123 · 2016-05-14T23:09:43+00:00

With tinder just set up a date as fast as possible. Quick chitchat then ask why they are on tinder. Whatever they say just say your looking for nothing serious, few dates, see if anyone cool comes along. Put it out there quickly that your looking for dates.

Next is "any luck yet". Your reply is always "a few dates, some good ones, some boring/shy ones, nothing too bad".

Then ask them out for a drink. From there its easy to tell if they are down or not.

Tinder is 10% dating and 90% sorting out actually dates from validation seekers

Title	Is tinder harder?
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Upvotes	9
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Date	May 14, 2016 10:46 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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