Guys, I've been going out with this girl for a little more than three months. I've kept contact via text to the minimum (just logistics) and we hang out once a week. Interactions are always great, she gives me solid IOI, and I've held my frame pretty well.

I've never backed away from escalating sexually. She gives me good BJs (swallows), we have intense make out sessions, etc. But every time I try to escalate into sex, she pulls away. Fast-forward to our last date, when I went for escalation once again and she stopped me once again. This time she confessed to me that she had a traumatic experience when she was a teenager (close to being raped, but supposedly wasn't penetrated) that made her feel somehow sexually inhibited and that she was still a virgin. I broke frame by telling her that I understood and that we could take it slow to make her more comfortable. I feel like I Beta'd and lowered my SMV by telling her this. I've never dealt with the V card before, so I honestly didn't know how to handle it. What do you guys think I should do next?