It just happens everytime somehow get into arguments with women. They interrupt me mid sentence and gasp of how much of an asshole I am before I can finish my damn sentence. How do you handle this shit?

youcantdenythat · 2016-11-24T00:48:21+00:00

Ugh, everyone, this is a shit test. A&A and go on with your life.

Learn a little something about amused mastery. Don't DEER.

Worse part is you failed the shit tests, they are going to get worse now.

H: Oh wow really? You're such a jerk!

Y: teasing smile yes baby, I'm a huge jerk, well, now that I think about it I'm more of a huge asshole... or maybe more of a huge dick... yes, huge dick, that's what I am!

Learn to HOLD frame. When she tries to get under your skin, just smile at her and tease her that her little games are cute. Just keep laughing at her until she comes around. If you don't take her seriously, she will eventually give in and start laughing with you.

If this doesn't work, after about 5-10 mins, if she's still pissing you off, just peace out. Tell her it sounds like she's having some issues and when she gets her shit together to give you a ring or whatever. Then just walk away. She may chase you but don't give in until she gets over her little fit or apologizes or something.

Bottom line: stop letting her manipulate you.

gu4po · 2016-11-24T01:10:50+00:00

“Listen, smile, agree, and then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway.”

-- Robert Downey, Jr

Auphor_Phaksache · 2016-11-23T22:50:51+00:00

Why are you letting people cut you off mid sentence? I keep saying this. If someone does something you don't like, address it.

biggybadwolf · 2016-11-23T23:45:03+00:00

the best argument is the one you avoid having

2cingle · 2016-11-24T06:01:30+00:00

I was trying to put things into perspective for her,...

Why you let yourself get roped into a conversation on that topic is the problem. I agree with others that your opening phrase was tactless, but that's not what caused her to snap and interrupt you.

So she wanted to nail you down, and you wanted to placate her without giving her what she wanted, a kind of compromise, from your perspective. Nothing short of nailing you down was gonna make her happy.

So why do you try to explain things to women that doesn't communicate the answer that they're looking for? It's like trying to teach a pig to sing; you waste your time, and annoy the pig.

atifhere · 2016-11-23T23:29:46+00:00

I do the mistake of be logical to the women. It don't work when she is being emotional, she don't care about how truthful or logical the argument is, she wants you to calm her emotions.

Continue saying what you are saying and become louder when she interrupts. Dominate the conversation. See Donald Trump clips that how he handles people interrupting him.

Or you can give her silent treatment, make a stoic face. Don't give her a reaction. She will eventually submit.

Imagine in your head that you are a father and she is a child incapable of logic or understanding of the world. You don't answer to the child's accusations, you don't defend yourself, you don't use logic.

savagedealer · 2016-11-24T00:13:24+00:00

She's garbage your anger/frustration is evidence of that ... what more proof do you need she isn't ready for what your ready for ... give up the idea of LTR and watch her suggest it in a couple of weeks on her own ... plant the seed and incept that bitch ... anyway like others said this shits a red flag don't avoid what you already know deep down inside ... she's pussy and you wanna keep the pussy around so you don't have to find more ... that's not a good reason .

Docbear64 · 2016-11-24T00:35:51+00:00

So first off of all your offering random comfort which sounds like you are in a round about way trying to say that you really like her which I don't think has ever helped a relationship of mine . She'll tell you if she needs your comfort , why keep validating her so that she's just bored with you ?

Secondly if you keep starting your sentence the same way and she keeps misconstruing your message before you even get the words out why wouldn't you shut the fuck up or find a better way to say it ? That is idiotic at best. If stating " If you were a piece of ass" is the shit that gets you in trouble let's re-think how we can say that " Chicks i don't like as much don't get to go rock climbing as me " , " I never take my other hoes rock climbing " , " I don't go rock climbing with just anyone" . Sure the girl was being rude by interrupting you mid-sentence but your inability to pivot in your speech made this a bigger issue than necessary .

However once again this goes back to my first issue why do you feel the need to prove to this chick she isn't just a piece of ass ? it sounds like you are already beginning to over - invest. You're having a good time with her which is fantastic let your actions say that , any loser can tell a chick he had a good time with his mouth .

the_seducer · 2016-11-24T00:04:34+00:00

Continue talking and ignore what she says. Repeat your sentences until she shutsup

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