Jealousy without cause?

FattiesMakeMeGag · 2017-01-07T10:01:36+00:00

She's trying to throw it in your face that she's partying. Don't reply to her the next day. After she sends you a bunch of messages say you were busy and continue ignoring. Basically, soft next till you think she's learnt her lesson.

RPthrowaway_007 · 2017-01-07T07:42:19+00:00

Gonna need a lot more details here, mate.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-07T19:31:48+00:00

should I cut her (from the team) for partying without me?

Sometimes, the young ones need a "teachable moment". As an example, when I was in college, I had a girlfriend who fancied herself "alternative" except she was hot and didn't want to ugly herself up by being a Goth or something stupid. She just liked listening to Siouxsie and the Banshees, that was about it.

So she had these BetaFag^TM orbiters, who lived together and would sometimes throw parties, by which I mean sausage fests. She would want to go early and stay late, and I would not because they were losers, to which she said, "They just have a hard time getting girls to come to their parties," to which I would administer the Shiv of Truth: "Right, because they're losers."

So we went once or twice and she held court while I drank their beer. The third (and last) time, I declined. So she went, ringing me every half hour. By the 3rd call, she was begging me to come pick her up--without the Big Bad Wolf there, the hyenas didn't feel like they had to keep a respectful distance, and they were creeping her out with their close talking and "hoverhand" type bullshit, each of them basically hoping that she and I were on the outs and she would "realize" how she and whichever orbiter was thinking it should "be together." Riiiiiiiight. So I rolled up, she flew into the car, and was on "best behavior" for a month after that.

And that was the last party she went to, escorted, while we were dating.

So yeah, sometimes, a lesson must be learnt.

lietruth · 2017-01-07T10:02:36+00:00

With these limited details, sounds like your GF went and partied without you. You held frame & now you're thinking you made a mistake & you should next her.

Consider it. But also be cognizant that she can do that if she wants. But she also knows what happens if she crosses you too.

OceanfrontKD1 · 2017-01-07T13:33:25+00:00

These hoes ain't loyal.

Title	Jealousy without cause?
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Date	January 7, 2017 6:42 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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