Today I was in the gym and a hot HB9 fit blonde was looking aggressively at me while I was walking past her. She has done this a couple of times before but today it was so open like she was dying for me to talk to her. I maintained eye contact until I walked past her.

I feel such a failure that I didn't have the balls to open her and say hi. Sometimes I have this problem and it literally kills me. Not because of a hot girl and the missed opportunity but because I failed to do something I want to do. In every aspect in my life, when I fail in something, I blame myself (unless I did my best and the outcome was not dependent on me).

How do you deal with this?