Just got dump..

roseillus · 2017-01-04T04:25:12+00:00

Stop texting her, block her on everything. Don't send her any nasty message, that's what a beta would do when SHE MAKES him mad because his frame is bad. Let those emotions go. You have a few days to feel bad, etc. then get back on your journey and start gaming new women.

Arcturus_ · 2017-01-04T06:52:07+00:00

Women want drama, stop playing into her hand. Unless it's very expensive shit or has actual meaning to you let it go. I've given up nice sweaters because I didn't want to see my ex afterwards.

Herdsengineers · 2017-01-04T05:05:22+00:00

Next time she calls, don't answer. Don't respond to her texts anymore either. Expect a jekyll and hyde mix. Anger, threats, then sorrow, then professions of love, and even suicide threats. Do not respond to anything.

At most, forward the suicide threat to the police. If she makes threats, at that point, respond with "Stop contacting me. I do not want further involvement with you."

The do not contact me msg is important to prove threats/harassment if you need to file for a restraining order. It's also super important to keep no contact and no responding - hard to claim harassment when you keep answering. If she continues you might want to change up your routine too, make it harder for her to find you.

Controlling, crazy bitches are a league of their own. If she finds you, and gets violent, let her. Don't respond. Make sure you're marked and she isn't. A few bruises, cuts, and scratches heal much faster than a domestic violence arrest record. And if you respond physically, you WILL be arrested.

Anyway, the breakup is a blessing. Even the bible recognized it, Proverbs 21:9 "better to live on the corner of a roof than share a house with contentious woman".

nice_and_friendly · 2017-01-04T04:34:51+00:00

good job resisting the knee-jerk reaction. thats the exact opposite of the way you should behave. being mean and tearing people down is easy.. being stoic is much harder. just say 'ok', thats more than enough. honestly just start building a rotation of fuck buddies and in a few weeks you wont care at all any more anyway

TRIICT · 2017-01-04T08:51:53+00:00

Separate Completely.

You messed up even leaving stuff at her place. You'll learn next time.

Yashugan00 · 2017-01-04T10:43:51+00:00

Nuclear shit test passed. She thought you'd come crawling back, and comply with every demand. Instead you didn't care, now she wants you even more.

and will be calling me tomorrow night begging to work on things

yeah, don't do that. It's done. You're done. Now she's looking to talk her way back in or get 'closure'.

cleverley1986 · 2017-01-04T08:38:55+00:00

blunt messages. don't ask for your stuff. tell her when you're coming over. "Hey. I'm coming over with my friend on Monday night (if you can get a pretty girl mate its fucking golden but don't tell her who) to pick up my stuff. please be in or leave a key out so I can box up everything."

niczar · 2017-01-04T12:05:30+00:00

Sounds like a typical narcissist, accusing you of what she actually is (childish)

vandaalen · 2017-01-04T12:17:35+00:00

I said "okay"

Should just have stopped after that.

BusterVadge · 2017-01-04T17:33:19+00:00

Just walk away... Don't get your stuff back, just go no contact, and see the loss as a tax on being involved with crazy women

drunkenmix123 · 2017-01-04T18:25:27+00:00

update: I texted her i'm coming over @ 1 to get my stuff. She ask are we going to talk about everything. I said no i just want my stuff. She then texts me back saying

"I can't find your stuff right now, I'll let you when I find it"

I know she knows where my stuff is she is being cunt and wants to keep this hold on me.

I'm going to text back just keep it or throw it away and just block her number

Avskygod0 · 2017-01-04T19:12:01+00:00

first of all you should not have had your stuff at her place ever

it's like asking to be jewed

BillBundyBishop · 2017-01-05T06:27:32+00:00

Yea avoid her. She's clearly going into her "Emotional Mode". Women will do this when they are breaking up with a guy. You could've been the best boyfriend on the planet but since she is breaking up with you her mind is saying she has to hate you. If that makes sense? Don't send the nasty message, in fact you giving brief responses and not chasing her IMO is pretty good. Avoid her, block her, if she tries contacting you thats your call if you want to talk to her again.

ecosci · 2017-01-08T20:17:15+00:00

You made her horny now go get your things perhaps bang her one last time and go ghost mode.

Title	Just got dump..
Author	drunkenmix123
Upvotes	10
Comments	19
Date	January 4, 2017 4:22 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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