So I'm currently in a LTR with an amazing girl, she had been a plate and stuck around with me hooking up with other girls and our compatibility is unlike that I've had with any other girl. I'm 20, in college, have been red pill aware for a few years now. I look towards the rational male, and his relationship with his wife as something to model my relationship after.

I have experience being basically the coolest guy at my high school, getting lots of girls, thanks to all of you guys, and I think I have a good understanding of the game.

Now I hope you don't stop reading here, but this relationship is a long distance relationship. We talk throughout the day, she satisfies my sexual needs via FaceTime, and we had been doing great. Until she found out that I had fucked a girl here at school. She hasn't moved to break up with me, we are talking things out, but it's just really tough. I see myself spending the rest of my life with this girl, and I think her not leaving after me cheating shows that this girl is someone to keep around.

What can I do to apologize, show how sorry I am, and make her feel better? Make her feel like it's going to be ok? All while keeping the relationship healthy, one where she looks to me for leadership and I continue to have general control of the relationship, like I had in the past.

I cheated because I had the opportunity, and while very drunk it seemed like a good idea. I'm ready to cut back on drinking and I genuinely want to stay with this girl to the point where I'm not going to pursue other girls. I've chased pussy and it doesn't give me that much satisfaction. This relationship does.

Any recommendations are appreciated