I’m only 14 and I’m working on losing weight resistance training ect but I have a really large issue. I think it stems from depression or maybe just my personality but I have a really hard time having genuine fun and lightening up. I tend to be fueled by negative emotions and less by positive. For example I’m trying to lose weight. I focus more on how much weight I need to lose than how I will look in the future. But I find this mentality effective because I fear that if I become to happy I will become content with current reality. Anyways I believe this is affecting how I interact with girls because I’m always so sullen. My posture isn’t great and everything but I don’t think I’m too much of a pushover. I’m not afraid to give a girl shit. Ultimately I think I just come off looking like an ass hole though and not in a good way. I tend to be a really anxious person because I have ocd so I’m on 60mg of Prozac which I think may be contributing to the issue. Advice? Thanks guys.