Logistics: How long to wait before scheduling 2nd date?

mallardcove · 2018-06-29T20:36:06+00:00

48 hours max, especially if it was a good date. You want to keep the ball rolling and momentum going and not leave the door open for another guy. If it was a good date for her, she is dying to see you again, so don't play games.

bupkiss1290 · 2018-06-29T20:31:58+00:00

The earlier the better. Most girls have at least 2-3 other guys hitting them up, so if you wait too long you will become irrelevant and they will ignore you.

aguywholifts · 2018-06-29T20:39:27+00:00

I don’t get the whole “wait a certain timeframe” notion. If you want to schedule another date, schedule another date.

If you’re concerned about coming off too strong in a clingy sort of way, phrase the invitation a different way. I have the most success when I’m slightly negging in my invitations. It spawns her to qualify herself to me and puts me in the position of an asshole, which I use to my advantage sexually.

Something like: “You were pretty amusing last night. I’m going to a party next weekend. Find a sexy dress and wax those legs.”

Title	Logistics: How long to wait before scheduling 2nd date?
Author	ENTPunisher
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	June 29, 2018 7:48 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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