Long distance

refusewool · 2017-05-25T18:28:12+00:00

A good strategy I always recommend for this delicate situation is to read the sidebar and move the fuck on

1NV0K3R · 2017-05-25T18:18:21+00:00

quicklogaccount · 2017-05-25T18:52:39+00:00

First I'll make an assumption. I hope you, as I, know what LTRs are for, how HARD they are to keep healthy, and how insanely frustrating and damaging they are if they're not healthy.

Ok. That put:

I would do soul searching and try to figure out WHY I think she's worth of LTR.
"Fuck, did I just go into scarcity again and am pedestalizing a woman that lives in another state just because I can't really get to know her and have a precise image of her?" - I would think.
And I would immediately start looking into banging another chick, so I can carefully and patiently demystify the image I have of her.

After doing that, I'd think "How does she compare to the girls I'm picking up here?"
Then I'd be able to better assess her worth.

Then, I would consider, "Provided that I know just how hard it is to maintain it, do I want a LTR? And one with the extra hassle of the distance?"

Finally, if the answers there were all positive towards LTRing, I'd think, again, "Is this girl REALLY good enough?".

Reformed65 · 2017-05-25T20:55:19+00:00

requires interstate travel.

lol fuck that.

Title	Long distance
Author	mighcle
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	May 25, 2017 6:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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