For context, I have gotten laid by sheer luck in the past through tinder and parties but this is my first time trying cold approach.

So far over the past few days:

  • Drug store girl: Was probably just being friendly, I asked for her number anyways and she gave her snapchat.

  • Tall grad student sitting outside coffee shop, she was nice even though I was nervous. Chatted for like 30 seconds, I asked if she'd want to get coffee sometime and she said she's seeing someone.

  • Plant store girl with nice ass, upon closer inspection she was like 40 so I chatted about hiking

  • Cafe worker, we talked for a few minutes, got number, texted her and she was apologetic saying that she had a boyfriend. Said I was "nice and sweet"

  • Short girl in beer isle, I tried talking to her about beer but she didn't contribute to the conversation and gave a flat no when I asked for her number.

They weren't rude per se, but none seemed sexually into me. I have also been indirect so far, maybe I should try opening directly. I'm also cutting from 20% bf so that should help. Pointers?