Hey everyone,

For the first time in my life im finding myself in a really bizzare situation and I'm not sure how to tackle it.

TLDR: I need more friends, and have no idea how to get them because I don't know anyone, so I dont get invited to parties to meet people. the classic catch 22.

But first, some information - I'm 25, single, developing a good career, university graduate, dj/music producer, and I live in Canada.

Now on to the problem:

I only have a small group of friends, 1 girl I'm fucking (so not a friend, just a plate), 1 friend I DJ and produce music with - we can call him Steve, and 1 person who's house we use as a studio - we'll call him John. Steve and John are about 5 years younger than me, which doesnt bother me. But the bigger problem is, none of us really associate with anyone else.

We don't really go to parties, or socialize outside of the established group we have.

OK now maybe that's an opportunity to fall back and focus on Rule 1, and also build my career in music and my day job...but while that's true, I need to expand my social circle and have no idea how to do so. I'm a really social guy and need more friends than just the 3 I got, definitely wanna be banging other girls too.