Often when I'm out and about, parties, town etc or even just daily interactions like asking directions I will get iois from girls who I'm attracted to. The problem I have is that at the time I'm unsure if they're really iois or the girl is just being nice, after the interaction is over I usually realise the girl was into me and trying to get me to hit on her.. I just feel like a needy loser trying to get girls and play it cool, so cool so that I miss out on 95% on the chances I get given. What are some ways to learn outcome independence so that I stop missing out on these opportunities?