Losing virginity tonight

DadOnDabs · 2017-06-13T17:20:50+00:00

Someone mentioned this already but sex is supposed to be awkward, funny, hot, and messy. It's not supposed to be perfect and it never will be. Once you accept that all your problems go away. PE gone, ED gone, refractory period gone. Have a bunch of sex and just get the hang of it. Let her know you're not very experienced (don't say virgin). It will put you at ease.

SovereignSoul76 · 2017-06-13T16:26:09+00:00

My primary advise: Don't try to be too serious, cool, or dominant. The sure-shot way to give yourself ED is to try to make sure everything is "perfect".

You're not gonna try to pop a wheelie on a motorcycle, your first time riding one. Just enjoy yourself.

max_peenor · 2017-06-13T17:09:42+00:00

because I'm a perfectionist

Is there going to judging panel watching? (Please tell me there is, because that would be hilarious.)

You are here to blow a load into a vagina. That is your mission. Fuck everything else. What? You want m'lady to enjoy? Ok, this is what you do. Blow another load. And then another. Just keep at it. Fucked it up the first time? Good news, your dick isn't a bee sting; it doesn't fall off after using it. Go again. Still not right? Roll her over, do it again. Do it again. Go go go.

Women like endurance and intensity. They won't even remember a one minute penis plunging, unless that is ALL you do. So do more!

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-06-13T16:42:17+00:00

I'm a perfectionist

Sex is messy. I mean, if you're doing it right. ;)

Jsieijejeieokkd · 2017-06-13T17:16:30+00:00

Start slow and then build intensity.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-06-13T19:44:16+00:00

Tell her to spit on your asshole first

TWYW · 2017-06-13T17:57:13+00:00

Read the Sex God Method (part of it since it's tonight). And then enjoy, really. Free your mind and enjoy every second of it. If any awkward moment happen, laugh about them and continue playing with her and have fun. That's all there is to it really.

QuagOnGin · 2017-06-13T19:00:34+00:00

Stop jerking off. You'll fuck more. Then this all will take care of itself. Seriously.

FlexGunship · 2017-06-13T19:48:50+00:00

You are so far in your own head already.

Dude... Just fuck. Tell her what to do. It's not a science. Just do shit that feels good.

moonpodrising · 2017-06-13T21:12:25+00:00

Saw your other thread, so first of all, well done.

How do I maintain dominance while not knowing what the fuck I am doing

I just want to say I love this question. And also, there's a sense in which you actually do know what you're doing, in any situation, no matter how unfamiliar it is. You know that you're learning, experimenting, exploring. You've know that you're working toward a goal. (Orgasms for both of you, at least, I suppose?) I dunno if that helps a guy 'maintain dominance', lol, but have fun.

drqxx · 2017-06-14T01:28:50+00:00

Drink a little; Relax; enjoy the process.

Edit: I mean less than three shots of vodka.

vandaalen · 2017-06-13T16:12:03+00:00

https://mega.co.nz/#!oBRAhYZT!j9EjX4blXICbZwUdNumaMnX0UCXsDYoSnIAtL2pBubg

Have fun.

bminuscplus · 2017-06-13T18:34:28+00:00

How do you know you're loosing your virginity tonight?

Curious.

SisyphosOnTop · 2017-06-13T22:26:59+00:00

How about enjoying yourself?

Bananno76 · 2017-06-13T23:27:36+00:00

You just jinxed yourself fucker, lol.

plymouthSundance · 2017-06-14T02:06:51+00:00

Let us know how it goes bro

binrobinro · 2017-06-14T03:23:38+00:00

It's supposed to be fun. Why don't you just have fun, and see what happens?

Title	Losing virginity tonight
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Upvotes	19
Comments	29
Date	June 13, 2017 4:11 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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Drink a little; Relax; enjoy the process.