Girl has a pretty bad past and should never have been upgraded to an LTR, I'm young dumb and only recently introduced to TRP, But I knew a lot about it going into this.

We've been together 7 months, she used to drink excessively and club a lot, high N count etc.

We started hanging out and eventually dating, I made it clear I did not want to date a club slut, and if she wanted to act that way it was fine but I wasn't going to date her. She respected me and said she didn't like going out anymore cause she rather spend time with me anyways. Over time she keeps making hints about "girls night" etc and how she misses going out dancing and seeing her slut friends. I feel like a dad babysitting a child at this point telling her what she cant and cant do, and when she does go out I have to tell her how much she can drink or else she ends up at my door at 1 am absolutely shit faced. I pretty much dumped her last night but she calls me today and says she really wants it to work but she feels way to controlled by me and that she should be allowed to have her girls nights and go out dancing as long as she checks in with me and comes home to me at the end of the night.

also wanna mention this girl cant control her drinking, in the past 7 months theres been 1 time she actually went out with her girl friends where she didnt end up completely smashed and thats becuase I told her if she was gonna show up at my place like that she wasnt allowed in.

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She, her friends and family think I'm manipulative and controlling because I wont let her go out drinking every weekend. How do I beat this besides just a hard next.