Ok, made a new acc for this in case my main gets made. Been lurking RP for about 2 years, 24, high paying job, great education (currently doing my PhD), lifting regularly (not near where i want to be but making progress)

LTR of a bit over one year planing to take a one month trip to foreign country for some language school bull shit, it's been her dream for years. However, AWALT; her being away alone in foreign country -> no consequence for her action. Now, LTR is pretty RP, independent but still knows how to cook and clean, good mother instincts, ambitious; potentially a keeper.

I've never asked for advice before, need help now; what to do RP?