My LTR is studying abroad & it has been a few days. She wants to go out because she’s with her friends & doesn’t want to stay alone in the hotel. She knows I’m not a fan of her going out.

They all went to a bar after an activity, but she knew I wasn’t a fan so she went back to the hotel.

I don’t mind 1-2 times a week, but shouldn’t be getting too drunk or staying too late. She asked would it be fine if I go & don’t drink (but I won’t know) How should i handle this? I trust her and all, but i don’t think it’s LTR material. Alcohol isn’t a good thing & she’s with her group of study abroad friends, & she loves to dance.

She would of never went abroad if we have met sooner.

Edit: it’s almost been a week since she could of went out 3 times. I think that’s a bit excessive.