So I (M20) have been dating this girl (F20) for about 6 months now and it’s going pretty great. We’re both in college so we spend pretty much every night at one of our apartments. We see each other a lot during the day, and she’s great. She has a good attitude, cooks for me, picks me up from class and does lots of other sweet and thoughtful things, and we genuinely just vibe super well.

However, she’s always had some hangups about sex, stemming from her Christian upbringing. Her body count wasn’t super low or anything (8 guys) but she’d really never enjoyed sex sober and had never cum with a guy.

We started hooking up in December and had sex super frequently, 3+ times a week until we started dating, which rampted it up to pretty much every day. This summer I could only see her like 2-3 times a week so we didn’t fuck as much, and since being back at school it’s gone from everyday to like 3 times a week again over the past couple weeks. She’s been stressed with school and so have I, and I’m prescribed adderall which inhibits my ability to get and stay hard, so it’s not all her fault. There have been times I’ve said no to sex as well.

Thing is she never really turns me down unless she’s super not in the mood, but even when we fuck she has a reactive sex drive so I always have to get her in the mood, she’s rarely fiending for my dick. Sometimes I feel like she is into it because she thinks I want it, and not because she necessarily wants it.

What would be the best way to help this situation? I suggested changing her birth control which I’ve heard can cause low libido.