So one of my plates has become a FWB. I know she was a CC and she has been upfront about it from the start. She used to be a crazy bi party girl hb9 to a declining hb8 that's realizing that she's hitting the wall and it's only going to get worse.

Now, I know that I should have an exit strategy because AWALT and I do but I can't help of entertaining the idea of spinning plates with her aware of it and maintaining a LTR.

She cooks, cleans and listens when told things. Originally she would shit test so hard but now has calmed down when she noticed that I'd just go out with other girls and make her jealous. She's terrified of losing my attention because she knows that she'll be pumped and dumped again by other chads and her SMV is diminishing. She can't have kids and her looks can only go so far (although she's educated as well). She also knows that my SMV is increasing as I'm lifting, getting back on my feet (failed marriage and single dad), improving my social skills (self help books), and spending time with more attractive women.

The fact that she's bi also interests me as whenever she drinks she's more open playing around with women but I have to maintain the frame that I can and will do this with or without her or it turns into dread game far too easily. We haven't had a threesomes yet but it wouldn't take much to adjust my frame to expect that from her.

She's also aware of my crazy ex and is good with my kid. Which has been a challenge for me with picking up women.

I also like how because she was a CC she knows how to fuck and does whatever I want to make sure that I'm pleased. Out of the bedroom, I started to hint that she's been too laxed on her lifestyle and she's now dieting and joining a gym to get back to her hb9.

So I guess what I'm trying to ask is has anyone done this successfully? Can this work? I don't love her so I don't think it's oneitus but I am treating her differently. What are your thoughts?