Hey guys, I have a problem that I'm dealing with and I really don't know how to go about it. I am aware of the saying She's not yours, it's just your turn but this really doesn't help.

So the problem is that I really don't love my LTR at all anymore. However I don't want to break up with her because I'm scared of losing my possession over her. When I think of breaking up, several thoughts flood into my head such as:

-I will regret the time and emotions I have spent on her

-I will feel a void in my life and be really upset later on (even though I feel no love for her now)

-The final and hardest factor I can't seem to deal with is the notion of losing her to another guy.

I'm dealing with the problem of possession here and I don't know how to get over it. I can't stand the thought of her dating and seeing other guys, let alone the obvious fact she will be fucking and be physical with her next bf or if she'll become a slut from a heartbreak, who knows.

Anyways, how the fuck do I get rid of this obvious problem of cognitive dissonance. Any help is appreciated.