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[–]BurnerTRPask14 points15 points16 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you can't trust her, she isn't a LTR.
[–]tifuwatchingnetflix points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Can't trust any woman tho amirite
[–]LockedOnTheRedPill6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trust, but verify. You "verified" that your "LTR" is trying to sneak out and club with her friend. Therefore, this LTR would be done if I were you. Demote to plate and move on.
[–]raisins3142 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Some are worse than others. Do not take this sub's message to be "all women are shit so I might as well be happy with a more horrible example".
[–]bigkids1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is true, every woman has her limit on how real she keeps it:
https://youtu.be/bq1HNTem4tw
[–]raisins3142 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
You barely know this girl after a few months. If you are going the traditional exclusive LTR route with her, then you know that she is okay with deceiving you and sneaking off. This is a horrible trait. You therefore should not trust anything she says. Also, if you just take as a given that if she drinks without you that she will get drunk and fuck a dude, then your girlfriend is low quality.
I've dated girls like this, the type I did not trust, and it was hell on my psyche.
Confronting her will do what exactly? Make a sneaky (and seems from your estimate kinda slutty) girl not act up in one instance. Make her behave a little better for a while and be more careful when she hides things? Confronting her does not change who she is or what she would do or wants to do.
If I were you I would either demote to plate or next.
ideas on how to take off exclusive status to plate? seems like a delicate move
[–]All_Ads_Deceive6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The downgrade isn't between you and her. It's for your brain. Remove any commitment and emotion from her. Continue hanging out and fucking her but that's all she is
[–]raisins3142 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm still learning that. Other guys here will be better at helping you. Do a search, this has been covered a lot.
[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"When there is doubt, there is no doubt."
-From "The Sayings of Chairman Zaitzev"
[–]50pluspiller1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's not LTR material, so best bet is to quietly downgrade to plate status.
[–]WhorehouseVet1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Demote her to a once a week plate. No need to drop her.
[–]Sfwonlynow1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plate her.
[–]quicklogaccount0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wonder if we should start advising people to never LTR college students in TRP...
It is remarkably simple. Two months in and she gave you a demonstration of some deleterious trait she has and hid from you. Do you want o handle this sort of stuff? Your choice, you don't have to.
[–]pandariot091 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Don't ltr in college dude. Just plain dumb. Live life on your terms only, it's not worth the headache
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