My LTR of 4 months and I had an argument over her having two wines at work and then driving home. She is a lightweight and was texting me messages that made no sense while doing so.

I said it wasn't ok and she said "I don't need this shit from you." and that she was sick of me judging her, we haven't talked since.

She has previously gone 3 days on another argument and I talked out of necessity for plans we had that evening. She is extremely stubborn, almost as stubborn as I am. How long do I wait to say something?