Theyre having a bbq after work, she told me this 2 days ago ,

Party starts at 8pm , she mentioned to me that she already ate earlier (text). its 10pm she is still there, I assume theres dudes too and not just chicks, I assume theres drinks and that theyre drinking,

Should I ask who is there? Should I ask why is she still there at 10pm?

How do I deal with this?

Her last text:

Her: you are going to sleep??

Me: Yes, I'm tired

Her: Ok baby, sleep well, I am still at the agency

How do I respond?