How do I make conversations more sexual with girls on dates irl and or on texts.

On texts I just sometimes send 😘.

But irl I’m not exactly sure how to do it. At the moment my strat is to just try to make allot of eye contact and touch them sometimes. But if the girl is shy she doesn’t really make eye contact and doesn’t touch back that fast.

Also something that happens if I talk a bit about what I like in girls then sometimes somehow the conversation goes to them telling me about their sexual past (basically saying they are sluts stories) and also want to prevent this.

I just want to know how to flirt sexually, tips are welcome