Hi guys, so a little backstory, right now I'm a freshman in uni, didn't really have any friends before coming here and the ones i did eventually left me after seeing what a uninteresting loser i was.

So after getting into university started working on my self development and such. So a few weeks ago i met a guy. He seemed cool at the time. He was going out of his way to hang out with me. Being the friendless bastard i was, i became friends with him.

After some time realized what i idiot i was, i couldn't see his character. I realized the hard way that he is really dumb and clearly has some issues. He ALWAYS wants to hang out with me. And honestly i thought i would love this dynamic, as he would be someone i couldn't lose no matter what i do, yet i don't.

Recently he became really became possessive of me and eats up too much of my time. Honestly i kinda want to help him as i see myself in him. I mean 4 months ago i was exactly like him. I would have clung to first person who showed interest in me.

But not anymore. Now i have somewhat changed.

So how do i deal with him?