A girl i knew from highschool, we sat every day next to each other for 2 years. We lost contact. 7 years later i add her on instagram. My life changed hard those 7 years (graduate, working for famous company, study abroad, about to pursue a master's degree etc etc), hers did barely progress and she just came out of a 6 year relationship.

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Some light talking for a while (few messages here and there spanning a month or so). Sometimes she would forward me a meme on instagram or whatsapp. I said let's meet and perhaps take a walk in the park with some coffee (lockdown here) . She made it very easy to meet up, and we did twice (1 week apart).

Third time she flakes, shitty excuse. I say no worrries, we can reschedule i'll just walk by myself then (and i did just walk by myself). ''Yea cool, lets reschedule'' she said. I set up a new time and date. She flakes again. Okay i am prepared, i read about this on TRP. I tell her again, no worrries. I'll walk by myself and start ignoring her. I ignore her since then.

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I thought perhaps her ex just came back in the picture or she is attention whoring for all the dicks out there or whatever. So i decide to ignore her.

However

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She keeps sending me memes through chat on Instagram. I first just liked them (double tapping them in chat), then i started to straight up ignore her and leave her on read on Instagram. I don't watch her stories, and when she sends a snap to me i just watch it 10 hours later and don't respond.

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WHY does she keep tagging me in memes or forwarding me on Instagram. Today she clicked on my name specifically on snapchat, to forward a picture of herself & her stupid dog (instead of snapping a photo and just clicking the 10 names who you want to send it to).

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Is she attention whoring (even when i ignore her and watch her snaps after 10-15 hours)? Does she want me to pursue or try again? Does she want validation, because i started to ignore her?