Stds are not a big topic here so here is my question!

Lost my virginity a month ago and since then have gotten my f count up to 6. With such a high prevalence of people having hpv and herpes and other stds, I’m thinking it may be smarter to seek a monogamous relationship with one girl(or multiple who are monogamous to me) to avoid a life stuck with an incurable disease. I realize that these diseases would most likely lay dormant if i were to ever catch them and not effect my life or even have a break out, but i would have to tell my future partners if i have(hpv or herpes) them and that would cause complications.

A monogamous relationship is looking more appealing after worrying about catching something after each new girl i add to my count and the unknown partners they are having when I’m in a sexual relationship with them. What are your thoughts? Do all of you spin plates and take the risk? or are some of you in monogamous relationships?

I have a few fwbs right now and i know they fuck other guys most likely, they get tested but stds can show up between tests.