I've gotten and I have plates. But I have been extremely lucky, and all my plates and ONS, where girls that were traveling and I would only see them from one night to a couple months max.

The awesome thing this gives me is, after a month or two, they are gone and I will never see them for the rest of my live (unless they come back and I want fuck them again).

My problem is that I've been lucky and I never had a plate that actually lived in my own city (there's around 220.000 people in this city), and I would hate to plate a girl that lives in my own city (for more than a month or two), because:

a)I could run into her at any place. Maybe while I'm with another plate.

b)When that plate breaks, I still have the chance to see her again.

Basically, It's a Don't shit where you eat but in your whole city.

Is this overthinking? how often do you run into your plates?

Is this something normal I have to deal with if I want to have more plates?

tl:dr Until this point I was lucky and all my plates were traveling girls, and I have a fear that, if I plate a girl that lives in my own city, I will probably see her at places. Is this irrational or something I will have to deal with?