My T

Sementeries · 2015-10-10T21:22:03+00:00

Her insecurity is gonna ruin that relationship. If she always asks if you are cheating on her or becomes paranoid, she is gonna cheat on you.

She can tell you whatever she wants, but her actions is what you focus on.

Always be willing to walk away from a relationship, no back pedaling to get her back, but that strong frame of mind of if she calls you tomorrow and says, "we're over" you would laugh and hang up.

edit: Always expect the worst from people, you'll be less surprised. You will be in a mindset of abundance.

vengefully_yours · 2015-10-10T22:58:24+00:00

Two things.

First dread works.

Second bitches will accuse you off shit they are doing out of guilt, it's called protection.

My bet is she is fucking at least two other guys while you pay her way.

Thesegates · 2015-10-10T21:19:23+00:00

My first piece of advice is to slow down. You're obviously knowledgable with TRP's core principles, but you may be lacking in the experience department due to your age.

I will say first and foremost, do away with your idea of marriage or long term commitment for a while. Don't start spinning your mind into crazy ideals and thoughts of commitment for quite a while longer.

The next thing is, jealousy isn't a bad thing. You're letting her know you've got "two in the kitty." She knows here that you have options. So don't be afraid to allow her wheel to spin. You need to remember, no girl, LTR or not, wants what you were taught growing up to think. Go re-read the 16 commandments of poon, and slow down your thought process. Remember, keep focused on your mission and let this girl prove herself to you in time.

youcantdenythat · 2015-10-11T00:16:18+00:00

This would be a huge red flag for me. It either means she is a cheater, or she has major insecurity issues. Keep this chick at arms length. I'm speaking from experience.

Auphor_Phaksache · 2015-10-10T21:06:24+00:00

Everything a woman says is subject to change because they base action on emotion. Where as men base emotion on action. Also, I don't know how much of the pill you've swallowed if you're thinking of marriage while still in college.

thebadmanpuntdbaxter · 2015-10-10T22:55:50+00:00

It's common to project self view onto an LTR. If she's worried you're going to cheat then its on her mind because she already has or she thinks she might

Tiway22 · 2015-10-11T15:44:32+00:00

She sounds like stress and work. Keep her as a booty call and find more chicks. No sense in staying LTR with a possessive/jealous girl.

Title	My T
Author	throwawayfordayz8
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	October 10, 2015 9:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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