Need advice for regaining frame quickly

ViolentInteger · 2020-06-22T15:39:31+00:00

You're asking how to patch up a torn wet paper bag of a frame instead of how to make it fundamentally stronger. Don't bother wasting your time on short-term fixes that only trick other people on occasion.

Start putting in the years of hard work to build yourself up as a man. Real confidence will follow, which is the base for any strong frame.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-06-22T15:49:51+00:00

this question is the mental equivalent of:

"need advice on how to learn self defense quickly"

neither is done on the spot. Naturals aside, those of us who had/have to overcome our BP programming and boundary issues, it takes time. time to get good at any skill or trait that you weren't born with. (and even the Naturals can get better)

so your question is malformed. the real question is, what should you do to strengthen your resolve, character, congruence, mental strength, confidence, Frame (NLP sense) and courage.

gee, if only the sidebar's recommended reading had something on those...

Whitefarmer · 2020-06-22T17:03:58+00:00

In an LTR tell her she can leave if she doesn’t like what’s happening. Works every time

tripmepls · 2020-06-22T14:46:02+00:00

Why would an interaction knock you out of frame? If a simple social interaction is knocking you out of frame then you should work on building up your frame instead of worrying about regaining it, since it sounds weak to begin with

Title	Need advice for regaining frame quickly
Author	DownSheGoes_
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	June 22, 2020 2:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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