Here's the sitch:

  1. ONS with girl.

  2. Want to ask her out for drink

  3. What do I say (it's over FB)?

  4. Outcome independant, I don't care what she says, I'll just feel better about myself.

We were very jokey and I was 'negging' the shit out of her. Do I keep that vibe in the message or just go with something neutral like "Hey x, I remember you telling me your last name, if you want a drink contact me on x"

At the end of the day, I don't care if she doesn't reply, I have a good abundance, but I also don't want to seem like I want more from her, I genuinley want to get to know her.

Any help here guys? I'm spending too much time thinking about it, but at the end of that I know it doesn't matter what I say, she has already made up her mind either way. I just don't want her to think I've forgotten her and I'm just another slut.