im kind of all over the place and would really appreciate some input. i was spinning 3 plates about 6 months ago when i went out on a date and this girl and i just clicked. I feel like she love bombed me, everything was great, sex was amazing and I was really high on her. I let the plates fall and started an ltr with her. Now 5 months in, she started some weird behavior. whenever I pulled away she acted like the one I fell for, but other times she's miserable, a pain to be around. I noticed her gaslighting me a few times when we had an argument. I ignored the red flags, but when I noticed her gas lighting me I broke up with her, hard next. She texted and texted trying to say all the things I wanted give things another shot. But I was suspected that she has borderline.

I nexted and it was an emotional rollercoaster. Sent me texts from loving me to hating me within 2 minutes, to weird accusations, to saying she needs to get stuff from my car, which there's nothing of hers in there besides an air freshener she bought. Does this sound like bpd behavior to you all who have been through this? She doesn't have anything in my car, but i feel that she's using that as an excuse to see me which I don't want. Is there anything else I'm in for for people that have been through a breakup like this?