need help fixing my dick

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-11-26T14:52:18+00:00

but I just don't wanna fuck them.

Then don't fuck them.

Get your testosterone levels checked. (Also get Prolactin levels checked.)

If that doesn't pan out, relax. Spend your time doing things that you enjoy.

Willkuer_ · 2016-11-26T14:54:31+00:00

Some background? How old are you? Have you had sex? Have you had kisses? Dates?

Is it possible that you are gay or bisexuell?

Why do you think it is not ok to live without a girl? Is something missing in your life? Do you want to have a significant non-family person in your life? Do you want to have kids?

empatheticapathetic · 2016-11-26T15:12:48+00:00

I have the same issue as you. No sex drive. I usually have to get to know a woman and know that she wants me before I can attempt to feel any desire.

There's a thread called dick health on the main forum where one of the commenters is a doctor. He said he had to meet a woman and spend 2 weeks making out with her regularly before he got hard enough to Fuck. He lacked the comfort and ability to know he could and wanted to fuck until he was comfortable to let it out. I have the exact same issue.

I've checked my T levels, I eat well and exercise. I've made a lot of threads about it asking for help. The verdict is it's entirely mental.

BusterVadge · 2016-11-26T14:50:05+00:00

What does "asexual" mean? Get your T levels checked first.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2016-11-26T15:30:58+00:00

Like everyone else said, get your hormones tested/treated.

Believe me when I say that libido and lust, while fun and exciting, are also huge burdens and the reason behind much of the strife and unhappiness in life.

If your testosterone levels are normal, consider yourself really lucky.

TheSigmaMonster · 2016-11-26T16:27:32+00:00

Get your T checked
You get to do whatever the fuck you want to do, so if you don't want to fuck girls, you don't have to

LLL3peat · 2016-11-30T00:02:58+00:00

Quit the porn and the masturbation. I feel you 100%. Women are social creatures and you want to build that intimate relationship with your brains as well as sexually. Unless you are fucking a woman will never fall in love with you. I prefer what you are asking for as well, but its a rarity. It takes sexual attraction at first to get them to talk to you. Then its up to you to lead the way and keep the interaction going without fucking it up.

Ultimately it sounds like you may be in denial, depressed, and don't want to deal with women for awhile. Its normal.

Title	need help fixing my dick
Author	throwawayAceAce
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	November 26, 2016 2:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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